Re: Would Leave Him/Her
The problem is that even if I make an extraordinary claim now (with sincere and positive intentions) the worth of my sincerity towards my wife can only be analyzed by the "TEST of time", NOT by my words.
I have seen people making big claims in the times of comfort and peace but couldn't stick to them when nature decided to see if they hold true to their words.
I pray to Allah (s.w.t) to keep me away from tests that are beyond my strength and might have a bad effect on my relationship with my wife, BUT if Allah decides to put me in such a test, than HE may also bless me with the strength and wisdom to take the right step which is not only good for my spouse and my family in this life but also has a good effect on our life in the hereafter.