would it make a dffierence to u ..

[Mirch]

Re: would it make a dffierence to u ..

Why so? If the rishta is the oldest of teh family then it makes sense that he's the only one whose married.

And the more $$ that's spent....imagine losing your job, thats another extra problem..

Why you are assuming that you have to invite them for all of the above occasion ? You are the one who will be invited and save on grocery bill. :D
If you are jobless then it is a boon to have a big family. If you spend a week @ a time at each home they will not mind and you can live like that for months looking for a job. Some get so used to it that they never find a job and live like that for all their lives.

[Deeba1234]

Re: would it make a dffierence to u ..

if a potential rishta had lots of siblings like .. 7 .. n only 1 of them is married .. ? ..

like would this scare u ? ..

No.. but I would also find out if he sees it as his responsibility to look after or provide for them all.. If they're early/mid-twenties or older they should be looking after themselves..

The fact that they're not married** in itself **wouldn't bother me one bit, it's none of my business..