Re: would it make a dffierence to u ..
If a potential rishta has that many siblings…and if the siblings were NOT financially independant or on a path to become financially independant, and the parents are not very well off financially…then yes, this would definately effect my decision on marrying that guy.
If all the siblings are minors or “adults” with no education/no job…that would have a negative effect on my decision. However, if all the siblings are in college/or pursuing higher education…or they have stable jobs and are in careers where they’re making decent $…then their marital status would not bother me.
A close friend of mine is dealing with this issue: Her husband gives $ to his parents to help them out. However, the husband also has a brother who’s almost 25, lives with the parents…never went to college and does little odd-jobs now and then. The 25 year old brother also expects my friend’s husband to support him! There’s noting wrong with the brother (ie. no disability). This is a continued source of tension in their marriage.