Re: would it make a dffierence to u ..
If he is supporting his parents…acceptable and encouraged.
If he is supporting his unmarried and unemployed sisters…completely acceptable.
If he is financially supporting his 25 year old grown and capable brothers…that is unacceptable.
If he is having to support his sister’s husband because he isnt working and makes him used to staying home…unacceptable.
If he is working to support a lavish lifestyle for his family and siblings but makes his wife work to support herself…unacceptable.