would it affect you ..

Lifestyle Relationships
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if ur bros are not happy to whom u prefer to marry ( n ur a girl) ? ..

ny girls in this position .. what happened ? ..

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change your brother

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Marry a guy who doesnt have kids :)

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this is not the guy with kids ..

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Then marry a guy who DOES have kids.

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I believe men understand men better than women. That said, maybe your brothers see something in this guy that they don't get a good vibe about. Doesn't necessarily mean that they're 100% correct, but I think you should consider their views about him and those of your parents.......before making a final and life-altering decision (that will not only affect you and the guy in question BUT ALSO the two families invovled). You don't have to do what they say, but just hear them out and give it some thought. If you're THAT interested in this guy...then have your family talk to him and get some clarification about issues.

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yeah ask your brothers about the matter....because they r your family they will surely want to protect u n maybe they have a genuine reason...

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:rotfl:

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Soni i still say go for Guy with KIDS.

when ur bros see that they will say no, You will ask them why and they will say becoz he has kids. Then you can say okay and go for this guy without kids. Your bros cant say no this time coz you have listened to them last time. Its their turn to agree with u ;)

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its your life soni.......YOUR.....its YOUR decision to make......... don't bother with what the father/brother force you about........... good luck

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Whats the parents' say about it? If anything, its their say thats important. And they can bring the brothers round too. Brothers could be emotional but parents are not. If its the family decision that matters for you then you either make yourself heard or listen to them.

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Yes it would affect me, I'd think twice and figure out what exactly they don't like about the guy

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It depends on yr relationship with yr siblings. If it happens with me, it would definately put me on a tight spot as for me my family's opinion is very important.

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thanks

thanks everyone for advice .. my mom n m e are happy bout it but w e never told my dad n bros yet .. we dont know how theyr gona react .. i think my dad likes him n al agree but im not too sure bout my bros .. even one fo my bros is freinds wiht him

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:omg:

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My brother wasn't happy with my choice but my dad told him to back off.. he had no valid reason to have a problem with my SO..