Re: Would/have you told your spouse about previous relationships?
my take is one should not be very over inquisitive about his/her spouse’s past. If present looks ok and there are no obvious flaws, dont inquire too much. If she was involved with someone (even if it was a fling), it was in the past and its not that she was cheating on her unknown future hubby.
Is it more ethical for him not to ask than for her to lie. I think yes.