worried...

:salam:
I got married in january& have been planning for 2 months… but without any success. Most girls/ women that i know got pregnant immediately, within 2 months.
Could there be anything wrong…

How long did it take you or someone you know (healthy) to conceive???
Plz pray 4 me.. :flower1:

Re: worried...

Congratulations to you! And prayers for you too...

The general rule is that a woman under the age of 30 should try for 6 months before seeking help. Since there is a window of only 24 to 48 hours that a woman can conceive each month, it doesnt always happen on the first or second try.

Your "fertile" time is about 14 days after the start of menses.

Good luck!

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You should try for at least 6 months before seeking medical help.

You need to try when you are at your most fertile as Mamaof3 has said.

Inshallah you will get some good news soon.

Re: worried...

Plus if you took birth control pills, it can take 1-3 months for its effects to wear off...

Re: worried...

snickers you've only been married for couple of months... try to relax and dont think there is anything wrong sometimes it just takes time.

Just enjoy your marriage :) Sometimes just stressing over it will cause a delay. I think.
and if you are very concern a visit to an ob/gyn wouldn't hurt.

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Whats the rush........ take it easy and open this thread again after a year or so.

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wormy... hopefully she wont need to open this thread in an year!!!!

Think Positive :)

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No worries snickers. All is well hopefully. Do not rush assuming things bad.

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goodluck :flower1:
be regular with ure prayers& eat a balanced diet :slight_smile:

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look on the bright side. you get some more time to have sex while still looking hot.

:D

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:hehe:

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brother, planning won’t get your wife pregnant…action will…

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^ how do u know he is a brother and not sister? :-/

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^ lol..now taht i read the orignal post in further detail, i think the brother is a sister....god bless..

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good luck. and wait a little bit too!!

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does one have to "try" for these things? wouldnt it be sooo boring :(

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Thnx everyone :slight_smile:

larki: we didnt use any sort of oral contraceptives :slight_smile:

Roshi: i went 2 see the gyn yesterday… she said that im alright and should start taking in folic acid.

Blushing: yes i will :flower1:

lussi: im a girl

PyariCgudia: couldn’t help but laugh! :hehe:

Re: worried...

Walaikum Aslam Snickers.
Not all womens have that gift to get pregnant right away or get pregnant in a month.
But why such a hurry? Anyways mostly the doctors say u have to try atleast a year or something. Im married 7 yrs but no baby yet :(

Re: worried...

Well relax, your wife will get pregnant. If you want a baby you and your wife both have to relaxed and take it easy. It will happen sooner or later.
We did family planing for few years and i got pregnant with in a month after stopping the planing. On the other hand my friend did not do any planing and had baby after 9 yrs of marriage.
Pray and leave it on GOD. it will happen and then you will be worriedif its going to be a girl or boy.