Worried about my pre-teen daughter, please help.

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Re: Worried about my pre-teen daughter, please help.

@Muzna

I would be up front with her and ask her what she has been jotting away about…if she is still evasive tell her that she is making you nervous about her mental health and that you will next seek professional advice if you are unable to establish an open and honest dialogue.

Let her know that while you are willing to extend her the right of privacy, you can only do so when you are sure that all is well.

I agree with Muzna, and also at the same time, I would start removing the posters and such from her rooms. You can tell her that you are doing it because she is now ready for namaz and cant do it with pictures in her room.

That might require you to remove pics from your rooms also (if you have them) cause she will definitely object.

I know this all sounds pretty serious and it is, but dont lose your sleep over it. It all can be taken care of slowly.