Working Mothers - Need your Help

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Re: Working Mothers - Need your Help

@D A M S E L

How do you manage to leave your child at home for the whole day? Actually, I’ve just started my first job and now am worried about my 1 year old daughter. Although my mother is very much supportive and she really takes care of my daughter in my absence, apparently there is nothing to get worried about but being single parent, I have some fears regarding my child’s psychological development. That’s why whenever I come back to home I try not to leave my child even for a minute, I try to make her feel that she has my attention. I have to work for her so that I can give her a better life.

Kindly advise me what else am I supposed to do in the present situation?

DAMSEL I am also a single parent and leave my daughter at home in my mother’s care. Your daughter will do just fine insha allah I think you are already doing all the things you can by giving her maximum of your time when you are at home. You need to work for your daughter’s and your better future and something in your life would require a compromise and an adjustment and leaving your child in other people’s care in one of the adjustment you would have to make.

My daughter is 28 months old Masha Allah and I am saying this not because I am her mother but because it’s true that she is a very happy & confident child I got this feedback from her going to be school as well. It’s because of how each of us at home give her attention and time.

You will also need to work with your mom and let her know what you want your child to know and how you want her to be raised . When you are at work try to maintain a contact at home talk with her on phone. If you have both saturday and sunday off spend both of these days to the maximum with your daughter.

It will be a difficult task for you but you will manage Insha Allah just have faith and keep yourself strong and yes IGNORE some ignorant people for your own sanity.