Working Moms/SAHM/Wives/Financially Independent Women

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Re: Working Moms/SAHM/Wives/Financially Independent Women

@PyariCgudia

Those husbands are great, that respect your income and respectfully and responsibly manage it with you.

Not all guys are such gems, just sayin’. Their women have the right to protect themselves.

I’ve seen girls get tossed out on the road by their husbands and they have zero zilch, because income is with hubby and he takes it from her. I’ve seen guys walk away with alimony in divorce settlements.

In my case, the guy I nearly married was planning on investing my income in business ventures, and it was making me uneasy.

There are guys out there that you cannot give your $$ to. Thank God Islam has a provision for this.

Would be nice if some ladies stopped strutting around about how great their marriage is and how they are such holy moral creatures for pooling their money with their spouses.

It’s great if you hand your hubby your 40K when he earns 200K, and he still takes care of you. Different if you hand some punk your 200K, and he squanders it on bad investments in “bijness”.

-___- Has it ever occurred to you that it’s not about the money? I am sure the wives who do hand over 200k of their hard earned don’t think their husbands are punks… And just because a wife is is handing over her salary doesn’t mean she must make less than her husband. It’s not really handing over, it’s called sharing.