Working at a relationship

[Sehrysh]

Re: Working at a relationship

@Mirch

It is called fear of commitment rather than willingness to make a relationship work. The work has not even started as it is a rishta process. The question of making it work will arise once the relationship started , it has not even started.

Okay, let’s put my example aside (and yes there is a degree of fear of committment, though I think I’m also honest about the type of person I could/can be happy with and “nice” is not enough).

But what about all of those others who are in a relationship and have ended their relationship or on the verge of ending the relationship? And let’s move beyond the marital relationship, what about the classic MIL/DIL relationship - why are so many at odds with one another? Why don’t they take the time to make the relationship a happy and healthy one?