Working at a relationship

[Sehrysh]

Re: Working at a relationship

@TLK

Willingness to make the relationship work, rather the lack of it - is the number one reason of divorces nowadays. I have seen some marriages falling apart and whenever I was asked to give my advice, I always asked them to work on their willingness to make it work.

The way I see it, a successful relationship is predicated on the desire and ability to compromise.

I know myself well enough that certain people do not inspire me to make compromises and I’d rather walk away from the relationship because I don’t have the willingness to make it work. The other day my mother suggested yet another guy, and my comeback to her was that I wasn’t sure I could be happy with the guy (and he’s a nice guy) and I’d rather not go into a relationship at all, instead of ending it after a few months/years :hinna: