Re: Workaholic women?
^ ofcourse.
Re: Workaholic women?
The ones who have their jobs/career on top of priority list.
Can they be ever be good wives? What would a man get out of such a marriage?
hmmm---"Workaholic" if we observe by its definition "One who has a compulsive and unrelenting need to work" or. "a person obsessively addicted to work" is not such a great quality and there is a huge difference between workaholic and HARD WORK. (regardless of gender Male or female) both must be balanced in their lives and mutual acceptance and work sharing (home and working )
any extreme is not good - Life is simple and we can enjoy our lives happily but we have decided to make it complicated for us--our ambitions without a specific goal leads to greed and greed lead us to work more (again not hard work ) just being like a machine and continue need for more money more work --
we from a tricycle to bicycle->motorcycle->used car->new car-> new expensive car ->new model expensive car to additional cars-so on
apartment to town home ->condo-> to 3 bed room family home to 5 bed rooms to a mansion --so on it is a bottomless pit once we fall there is no stopping-
there are 24 hours in a day 8-9 for work -7-8 for family-friends-community-society 7-8 rest sleep in peace -
Educations (male or female) is great virtue but Having Higher and higher education BUT no WISDOM ----->to keep a balance--- will lead us no where ---
So be humble and simple enjoy life ever single moment of it be at work or family or dues towards community -and hopefully we all sleep well in peace at night - and we all be great husband and great wives --no doubt ---
Re: Workaholic women?
That’s a very blanket statement. I posted my own experience and thoughts. There is nothing for you to agree or disagree to. What is it you object to specifically? That my experiences are wrong? I am not riddled with guilt and shame for choosing my marriage and children over my career?
Re: Workaholic women?
That's a very blanket statement. I posted my own experience and thoughts. There is nothing for you to agree or disagree to. What is it you object to specifically? That my experiences are wrong? I am not riddled with guilt and shame for choosing my marriage and children over my career?
Did you read the text that I quoted? Did it include about your own experience?
Re: Workaholic women?
Most women dont like my views , but having had a successful career, I realized in time that I dont want to be a man and a woman at the same time , all through my life.
I continued working after marriage for a while, but soon realized I am handling a very hectic job, plus keeping home and focusing on family .. both demanding equal efficiency. At which point I decided to prioritise home and family .. initially finance was an issue since we were too used to a certain lifestyle.. but then with time we learnt to manage our finances in a good way without letting our lifestyle getting affected.
In short, raising kids is a full time responsiblity. running a home is a highly challenging task . I dislike men who consider a working independent woman to be a degree higher then a housewife. I fail to understand why a woman is expected to be perfect in every aspect of life. While men can gain all the recognition in the world by just having a strong career.
An educated, sophisticated woman should be perfect material for marriage rather then gauging her on her career building and money making ability.
By nature and religion, Men are the breadwinners and they are given the status and responsibility of being the head of their family .. they are expected to help around the household but its never expected of them to manage both work and home to the same level of efficiency, similarly should be the case with women. But unfortunately women have been exploited to such a level that they dont feel their success in homemaking , rather they are seen to be put down on those skills and forced to consider themselves successful if they are being a man and a woman at the same time to equal levels of efficiency !!
love this!
Re: Workaholic women?
What about woman who put ALL their time towards their children and home, for example, and neglect their marriages and themselves? How many husbands would feel this way do you think? and technically isn't that a form of "workaholic-ism" in another sense of the word. one example being, someone i know is completely attached to her child and ultimately gives her husband no time because shes always frazzled about the kid, always giving him what he wants right away because she cant see him cry, before the child her and her husband had a great relationship, actually had a love marriage. pretty girl, and now she hardly shows up putting much thought into her outfit at social gatherings either. and again, can only be seen running after her child even when hes not misbehaving. is that a form of this compulsive behavior?
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She is a a helicopter parent, whose suffocating her child.