Most women dont like my views , but having had a successful career, I realized in time that I dont want to be a man and a woman at the same time , all through my life.
I continued working after marriage for a while, but soon realized I am handling a very hectic job, plus keeping home and focusing on family .. both demanding equal efficiency. At which point I decided to prioritise home and family .. initially finance was an issue since we were too used to a certain lifestyle.. but then with time we learnt to manage our finances in a good way without letting our lifestyle getting affected.
In short, raising kids is a full time responsiblity. running a home is a highly challenging task . I dislike men who consider a working independent woman to be a degree higher then a housewife. I fail to understand why a woman is expected to be perfect in every aspect of life. While men can gain all the recognition in the world by just having a strong career.
An educated, sophisticated woman should be perfect material for marriage rather then gauging her on her career building and money making ability.
By nature and religion, Men are the breadwinners and they are given the status and responsibility of being the head of their family .. they are expected to help around the household but its never expected of them to manage both work and home to the same level of efficiency, similarly should be the case with women. But unfortunately women have been exploited to such a level that they dont feel their success in homemaking , rather they are seen to be put down on those skills and forced to consider themselves successful if they are being a man and a woman at the same time to equal levels of efficiency !!