Work vs babies

[akaprincess]

Re: Work vs babies

@Bobby1

In these modern times husbands aren’t supposed to tell wives what to do, it is their privilege to decide. My wife is a CMA and decided not to work after children. You are absolutely right that it is wonderful for moms to be with the babies. We have lost perspective and give a lot of priority to money.

but I want to work, and I don’t mind at all.. the issue here is when to start looking/applying. He thinks that when I do get pregnant, that’s when I should look.. because, lets say I am pregnant right, and I am not finding a job, I will be out of pay for however long it takes for me to get one (if I ever even do). I want to play it safe by securing that at-home job now, so I don’t have to worry about it when I have a baby on the way, and can quit my regular job now.