I want to ask the girls few questions. Experience after marriage in joint family
1 When you start work at home after marriage. Like cooking, washing, ironing, sweeping.
2 How you mange when you are sweeping with jharoo and there are people in the room. did you feel shy.
3 Washing your under garments while people are there.
4 If you forget to lock the room while changing and someone comes in.
Ali, please can you explain your thought process, how did you come to ask all these questions?
Like feeling shy when jharooing - why would a person feel shy? Have you been a room with a recently married girl who was jharooing and you had to avert your gaze???
Have you secretly been watching a recently married girl wash her undergarments?
Have you walked into some recently married girl's room when she was changing?
What is going on in that head of yours, or would we be better off not knowing???
look no one is saying that these women that you posted should get anyless respect, then i guess an educated women. But look what your posting? Thats extreme! Most of us don't have to go to the river to wash clothes! Everbody has different levels of hardships, so when we are educated, does that mean we have to live like THIS to prove that we have respect, no! If thats the type of work you appreciate, then so be it, but i respect women even move when they pull themselves up to work outside AND in the home! And as i said before, whats wrong with the man putting in a little hand?
suppose that you have to go to a small village for 3 months for some emergency. What you will do in that case.
Yes i agree that hubbies has to work with the wifes.
why will i ever have to go to a village for an emergency??????? Thats like saying i should prepare myself to go to the Amazon rainforest for an emergency!
Ali, please can you explain your thought process, how did you come to ask all these questions?
Like feeling shy when jharooing - why would a person feel shy? Have you been a room with a recently married girl who was jharooing and you had to avert your gaze???
Have you secretly been watching a recently married girl wash her undergarments?
Have you walked into some recently married girl's room when she was changing?
What is going on in that head of yours, or would we be better off not knowing???
These are some (not all) of the problems which girls are facing in a joint family. Because when a girl come to a new house it takes time for her to adjust. The problems which i mention is there in our society and some just not mention it. I believe that Jharoo is a very difficult job and to manage your self if there are other in the room. If you are alone no much problem. but if others are there than you have to take care of your clothes also. To me it is very hard job. The only solution is to tell them to go out side the room and then make jharoo. Other problems are also there.
You, my brother, need to stop watching them star plus soaps. Try watching Animal Planet, pretty much the same stuff, with a much better cast and much natural acting.
in villages also there is electericity so u can take ur things with u! why need jharoo?....also why u need to a join system in village? surly that family is from that village so better take a girl from same village as she used to it....a girl who cant bear joint system wont live in joint or the one who doent want do jaroo she will do with vacum cleaner...front of all or etc doesnt matter...
when we held my hubby birthday in my anut's home so after party we both helped my khale to clean her carpet by vacume cleaner...many ppl were there so me & hubby were cleaning in spot khale was taking from him...then i was taking from khale & hubby was taking from me...thats all abt helping to clean as a team by LOVE...