How you express your feeling for your relatives on different occasians like birthdays, anniversery, death ,marriage etc. through cards or in your own words?
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usually i just sit in center .. and say nothing.. saying nothing is far better then words… well that’s my opinion … 
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with close ones u just be there with the slightly formal relations you set out reasonable dialogue. it is a horrible task though.
Its wrong.If you wont express your feelings ,nobody will know what do you want,what do you wanna say.Soo always keep expressing your thoughts.
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I express my feelings by actions. Any occasion, happy or sad, you will see me running around the place managing whatever I can. I normally take over the management affairs.
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i show my exact gratitude and condolences acc to the occassion. either help em in decorations, food etc.
but recently there were four deaths in my family-extending family (age of 64, 80, 76, and 23) and i get to hear the most awful comments in my life.
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sorry to hear that Zobs 
But yes, some people never get done with taunts. 
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Birthdays & celebrations etc, I usually write out cards AND congratulate people personally :)
However, with deaths, I have this problem. I never know what to say at that moment. No matter how much I want to, I can't. So I usually try and SHOW how I feel through my actions. I help out as much as I can, console people and read Quran on their behalf etc.