Nearly all of us want a dream mate- nice looks, a healthy or spicy life, and characteristics we value in a person: trustworthy, successful and athletic in appearance are just a few examples.
Within 15 minutes of meetinga person, can you sopt what makes them so unique??? Doing so can help you decide if he or she is right for you.
Can you decide after few meetings that he/she is THE ONE. Lots of things matter for many of us which we ussually ignore or want to ignore. even little thigs like
Are his fingernails dirty or neatly clipped
how he uses his bathroom
his eating habits
communication style
his style of thinking
if he is funny or boring
bla bla
and can you go away from that person so easily after you have promised so many things
what is your idea of dream mate???
for me dream mate is the one who listens to you when you are quite
15 min is not enough to know about “is it my dream mate”…but a few meetings might be if i am bold and wise enough to ask all I want to know in a diplomatic and very subtle way…!
my dreammate has a strong personality, likes big families, is very moral and religious and not shy to tell me his wants.
I believe one can only judge a person by appearnce to some extent. But if you feel comfortable talking to the other person whether its only for 15 mins that's a start. In addition one should always do Istakhara and leave rest to Allah. Just my 2 cents.
hahahah