Re: Women's psychology!
nushuz - is the best remedy, when trust in intimate relations, is broken. What is the ultimate that we share with someone – our total being – physical, emotional and spiritual. When trust is lost, all is lost.
talking - is the best when it is to be recon ciliated and reaffirmed.
love or arranged or part both , all kinds of marriages go thru ups and downs of love and hate.
what one can do, is that get ur minds off of the obvious and try to get to the real causes of dis-ease and un comfortable ness.
just be good friends. talk over the problems. women, research shows are tending and befriending... but not at the expense of their own self respect.
men on the other hand, are instinctual - fight or flight.
ever wonder, what the birds are doing chirping at nite, in summer?
they're either calling their mates or talking over with them, what ever they want to talk about.
they do not care if they disrupt my sleep. in fact it is so neat to listen to them talk.
try it one day and then try it with ur loved one or spouse.
u will see how good u feel.
we are evolutionarily built as social animals - women demand commitment where as men, run away from it.
& that is the beauty of the circle of life for the human kind and its genders' role-type battles.