well, I think that Women’s have difficulty Sharing Feeling, How true it that???
My Honay wali partner lives in her head. When I ask her how she feels, She just says’nothing’ or ‘I don’t know’. Why is it so hard for girls/womens to share feelings? The more I try , the more closed she gets. Have you been through such kind of situation ???
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So now all women find it difficult to share feelings?
Maybe you could try to find out if there's an actual reason why she doesn't talk to you? Maybe there are people around? ? ? Maybe she doesn't trust you all that much? ? ?
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i m not saying that all the girls do that, But when you consider sumthing, You take the Majority you know, I was just asking that have you been through that situation....
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i am actually making someone go through this situation :D
don't know how my fiance keeps up with me...but it is true...its difficult for girls to be expressive...i won't say its true for everyone..i have seen very expressive girls as well....but in general....it is like that...especially when it comes to expressing how u feel..in relationships.
and i guess that answers ur question...so i am not getting into the "why" part....i really don't know...
errr...here i go again :D
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btw andy...i got ur PM..but i dont have enough posts yet..so i can't reply to urs!
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Be bold Hira & say the truth :D Don't make him frustrated like me. I tell you about myself that it's very Frustrating for me, I m like :( mostly whenever i talk to her :( So please make him feel good.
Oh yeah thanks for telling me i m in Farwaniya where you at ?
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Not here on GS may be somewhere on Venus
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:)ok Rush
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that is the reason why, women must feel comfortable with men, and that has the precondition of security, trust, respect for privacy, mutual regard., which u will find are missing for women, and that is why they do not easily convey things on their mind…which can be a good thing, but is mostly a bad thing, ending in a state of indecision and/ or unhappiness.
so, as a male, u and others can do a lot to make that positive change in women's thinking, by assuring them that it is a good thing that they say what they have to say, of course with modesty and self-dignity.
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I will follow your suggestion Dushi Thanks for letting us know about the Reality
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ur'e welcome, brother.
best, to u and ur fiancee' in ur future always.
may it be filled with endless joy and adventures that bring u even closer...
dushi
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so, as a male, u and others can do a lot to make that positive change in women's thinking, by assuring them that it is a good thing that they say what they have to say, of course with modesty and self-dignity.
security, respect of privacy etc are important indeed, in a relationship...but on a more general note. this problem of not being able to express urself or ur emotions has more to do with this thought on the back of ur mind...that may be the other person might judge me if i say something..or answer this question or that question....or what the other person would think about me!?... what if i answer this question in a silly way...a long list of "what ifs"
sometime this thought process just get hardwired into u...and its difficult saying things out even when u try!
i'm afraid..in such a scenerio patience is the only key...openning up takes time..specially if u are talking abt a person like me :D
the more u act frustrated or bothered about it...the more time this process would take!... u can just keep assuring (without saying)..that she won't be judged...and that'll do...
i hope :D
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so, as a male, u and others can do a lot to make that positive change in women's thinking, by assuring them that it is a good thing that they say what they have to say, of course with modesty and self-dignity.
i think we said the same thing in different words!?:D
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women actually want mean to be puppet 
They know k ager “sub bata deya” tu “maza” khatam ho jayee ga.
as per my “WO”, jo maza chupaney main hai wo bataney main kahan 
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May be she doesn't want to share. Maybe there isn't anything she feels towards that particular issue/person. Get the message dude!
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Fahaheel
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ok Great! Hira
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an old unwritten saying i heared is : Women are like shadows. If you run towards them - they will run away. If you run away - then will follow you.
anyway, if you haven't met and talked to her in person - its hard to just start off on the phone. Plus you never know - wats the situation in the house - and who is listening
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We know eachother very well :) .........We are cousins
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Why won't they just say what's in their mind... saves us all the trouble!