Here in the field it is normal for people to hook up for a night or two or for the weekend. Comes with the territory. Now one of my friends is “dating” this chick and she has been coming on strong to me. Asking me out for lunch, inviting me back to her place for dinner.
The one time I went it turned out to be just me and her. Awkward! Anyway now gentlemen what do I do? Do I hit it and then deny it every happened…tell my friend what is going on and ask his permission?
I am at a loss on what to do exactly. Plus she is Bangladeshi and hot…okay hot if you have been in the field for 2 years, are unmarried and at this point have no girlfriend. She is that hot Lets say beergoggles in effect.
Anyway oh wise gurus of Life 1 - what should I do?
In pakistan its called transfer letter.
You should get transfer letter from your friend, before moving forward.
Women are not worth losing frinds over.
3- How interested she is in you. Meaning is she checking up on you how good a friend are you with him or the friend already knows about the lunch thing and just trusts you...or checking up on you.
Either way, not a good idea to move forward....at this level. You may regret it.
Tell your friend about what you think you are seeing. He might get angry at you and accuse you, depending on your relationship with him. You will have to tread the waters carefully. This is a sensitive issue.
If it really is just a fling that he has and doesn't truely care, you can go ahead and hook up with her. But even if he cares a tiny bit, the best bet for you is to run for your life, from this girl. This will only complicate your life in a BADDD way.
Lets say beergoggles in effect.
