Re: Young Pakistani Women who hope to find men for themselves, are "made" to be losers.
You definitly have a point .....
However, the problem is, you seem to be a good girl who yet haven't come across a good man. When you'll, all your complaints will be gone..... Just as bad men, there are bad women too. When good comes across bad, this is exactly what happens .......
It is not only girls, boys also go through a lot, sometimes really humiliating behavior. every situation is individual and has its own circumstances
Double standards of Pakistani young men are horrendous.
Their parents' values and secretly their own are aspiring to find a timid, beautiful, rich young women for themselves, as daughter-in-laws and as wives ... but before that, these men chat with women on-line, they date with them, and go beyond it...
Yet when a woman simply wants to make sure that with getting to know a man herself, intellectually, ideologically through communication, on-line or in- person, she lives under the fear that her character is or will be out on stake, for the double standards that these men, & the society at large, has accepted and formed against her.
How rotten is that?