~ Women status ~

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lik women worked only for family stuff in old days, but they work in public now. that’s the difference…Sure, European women have a lot more social and economic freedom than they used to…u didnt find this in Pak/Islamic countries … Though they may face more discrimination as/if the gender balance continues to grow - problems over human trafficking, kidnapping, etc…

I think in general the women today enjoy freedom more than before. For status, a small portion of them are much higher than before. A large portion is not…Most of them are not forced to do so… They want money more than reputation or status.. ..

What is the women’s status today?Lower / higher?mean to compare the status of women in 1947 and 2007?..in short wht u think & ur opnion abt today’s Women..?

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Both times have their pros and cons.

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lik

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I d love to write some things here but I ll probably be hanged by some of the sisters inhere :D

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write whtever u lik …:chai:

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ok later on :D

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ok :chai:

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people people keep it thanda
behave like a good banda
friendship ka tum lehra do jhanda
warna tumhara behavior ganda

:smiley:

PS - yea i just made it right now :snooty:

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app thread kharab kernah mai shaaar hooooooooo ..no prob...:)

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ya today girls have more freedom...pehlay unko sikhaya jata that keh they are not supposed to say anything infornt of elders chahe kuch bhi ho jae now they can express their thought freely

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please share your thoughts

i feel like hanging some body..

ok just kidding ..

but do write :)

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by decent fellow' "I think in general the women today enjoy freedom more than before. For status, a small portion of them are much higher than before. A large portion is not......Most of them are not forced to do so... They want money more than reputation or status.. .."

you simply cant say that women want money more than reputation or status. Isnt it everybody like men also. it's more of an attitude shift in both sexes.

question abt their status, yes they have more freedom and more power, but as spiderman's grandpa said in spidy 1 ' " with greater power comes greater responsibility"...
now they have to deal with larger issues and issues outside of the house also.
i personally like my freedom. :)

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women status have evoluted n its a good things but we should not also forget that behind the success of a man, zers always a woman!! :halo:

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no matter how advance we think we are but women still dont have the freedom they deserve they still will be "women" the weak ones according to u men. and i just wanna ask one thing fron all of u men auratoon ki freedom aap mardoon ko itni chubhti kion hai? y dont u just leave us alone and let us breathe!!!

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Fishaqua ..abuu ne kaheee app koo ghar mai band ker ka tou nahi rakha howa ..:cb:

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koe sath chelana chaheye tow kutech bhee kabool
koe dhoka deye, tow seb fazool!

meaning, women and men must be honest to each other.
distribution of labor inside and out side of the house, is not a big issue, if both respect each other and love each other.
it is a defining moment for each couple, when there is no confusion of resentment and self serving double standards in the mind of either.

true regard for each other, will never ever bring the two to a point that
indicates mellowed hearts and minds, and resentments or disappointment.

making and keeping a family is for both of them - man and woman.
so how can we say that a given individual should be deprived of the right to share in caring for the relationship and the house and family.
women, by nature are really good at taking care of the houses and keeping them comfortable.
it is up to the committed men to appreciate this and value this and not let go.
& for that, both have to regard each other, equally and unconditionally.

to me, as a young woman, taking good care of a house is a blessing. but the individual who will be my life partner will have to be worthy of that care and comfort.

as for the status conscious ness,
no woman who values a family life, will give up on it, for the sake of money or prestige ever.

a woman's true nobility is that she handles both family obligations and her career very very carefully and manages both successfully.
and true that she would need support from her husband, but if real care is extended, then, both will be happy.
dushwari

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[quote="Dushwari, post:41, topic:160881"]

koe sath chelana chaheye tow kutech bhee kabool
koe dhoka deye, tow seb fazool!

meaning, women and men must be honest to each other.
distribution of labor inside and out side of the house, is not a big issue, if both respect each other and love each other.
it is a defining moment for each couple, when there is no confusion of resentment and self serving double standards in the mind of either.

true regard for each other, will never ever bring the two to a point that
indicates mellowed hearts and minds, and resentments or disappointment.

making and keeping a family is for both of them - man and woman.
so how can we say that a given individual should be deprived of the right to share in caring for the relationship and the house and family.
women, by nature are really good at taking care of the houses and keeping them comfortable.
it is up to the committed men to appreciate this and value this and not let go.
& for that, both have to regard each other, equally and unconditionally.
**
to me, as a young woman, taking good care of a house is a blessing. but the individual who will be my life partner will have to be worthy of that care and comfort.

**** that wht is basically required from an educated gal **

as for the status conscious ness,
no woman who values a family life, will give up on it, for the sake of money or prestige ever.

Yup i agree with u

a woman's true nobility is that she handles both family obligations and her career very very carefully and manages both successfully.

Best & ideal behaviour

and true that she would need support from her husband, but if real care is extended, then, both will be happy.

Agreed

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Sometimes, our status is not defined by ourselves.
We are forced into substitudes for lack of better.
Now, yes, Im such a person. Loved family life and
in laws etc. Functioned best with a partner etc.
Now Im a hardcore person, just aiming for materialistic
things. Just want success in other aspects of life, caz
its essential to have the feeling of getting ahead.....
Some of us cant have it all and that margen is growing
in our Muslim society. I wont go into why and blames....

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yup i agree with u ...