women remember

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…every little thing. a shared laugh, a feeling, some past experience shared, or
some future dream.

how do men forget? is it their nature?

would anyone lke to share for healing.:slight_smile:
dushwari

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Women remember the details that deal with their selves but how they hurt others is often forgotten. Sadly.

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i did not refer to a woman's own feelings, or dreams, but the man's.

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I forget things :bummer:

perhaps some things are best forgotten!

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I remember everything and ill never forget it.. :jano::sara:

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mehne jab bhi kisi ko hurt kiya, woh sirf retaliation mein tha :snooty:

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It is said that Elephants and Women never FORGET :D...so true

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Dushwari,

Personally, if there is a problem I like to deal with it. Look at all ends, figure out the solution and move on. The problem with women is that they like to discuss their past experiences and feeling, etc. over and over again with each other... especially desi women.

Women often work with half-assed estimations and guesstimations, such as:

Ye hua
phir esey hua ho ga
phir uss nain esay kia ho ga
phirr uss nain bhi kuch kia ho ga
agar esa na kartey to wesey kar letey

All estimations and guesses, no solid proof to work with here. The find something shinny and they think it is gold necklace instead of first finding out if it is whole necklace of just piece of metal. Meaning, ek baat milti hai choti si to phir uss ki dastaaney bunti hain aur storiyaan bunti hain aur phir ek dosrey ko sunai jati hain telephonon par aur ek dosrey ke ghar ja ke, etc.

ye wo this that and degradation of the household goes on and on with backbiting and emotional sentiments that women like to hold on to forever. Men and me personally very different and far away from this asinine way to live.

Women often turn their past experiences, feelings into self imposed mental disorders which haunt them for rest of their lives whereas men, they are free from this type of self torture.

Sadly, there is no cure for this, yet.

PS: The fact that women put up this type of **circus **in households around the world is the reason why their men suffer from stress, depression and other issues in life.

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^ btw are u a woman or man?

Guess the country of the music/dance (It's a game)
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Mrs. Saieen, I am a man.

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^ Are you the more serious version of Jaan Lewaa?

Guess the country of the music/dance (It's a game)
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Ouchhhhh....... that was harsh.......very harsh yaar.
But i respect it its ur opinion.

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No connection between us. I didn’t even know that nick existed until I was confronted with it. :wink: I am not that serious now. :bummer:

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^ Well there's a diffrence in the way you two type/"sound"...I think he was a cafeite, didn't talk to him much but he was nice guy :)

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I despise cafeites... they are the electric go go carts of Gupshup, designed to go through same loops, bumps and jumps as those great guppies before them.

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^ They're nice ppl most of em :)

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So are go go carts even when they bump and jump.

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Men dont forget they just dont always mention it...