i’ve been asking the same questions for the past semester… i recently became friends with girls from my university who are pretty religious (5 times prayer, etc). we all pray behind the brothers during the respective timings of the Salat… however i used to heavily discuss with my mother the importance of women reading in Jamaat.. etc etc
upon reading info from a site, here is what i got :
Participation of Women In Congregation Salaat in Mosque
Ques: Is our Muslim women are allowed to go to Mosque for Prayers?
Ans: During the period of the Prophet of Allah (Peace be upon Him) women used to participate in five time prayers and Eidain, etc. It has been clearly mentioned in the traditions. But it was welfare age which was out of mischief. The Holy Prophet (Peace be upon Him) was alive and it was the age of divine revelation.
In spite of all that the presence of women was not preemptory nor the presence in congregation was necessary. On the contrary, the depth of their homes was termed as better than Mosque for women, as is narrated by Hadhrat Umme Salamh (Radhi Allahu Anha).
However this permission was attached with few conditions. Such as that women should not come as well decorated, with best cloths, perfumed and with sounded ornaments, rather they should come shabbily. As it is known by a narration of Ibn-e-Majah that the Prophet (Peace be upon Him) saw a woman of Maznia tribe, who was walking in the Mosque well decorated with dalliance. On that the Prophet addressed the people and said that people should prevent the women to do like that because the Bani Israel were caused and disgraced as their women started to roam in the Mosque with dalliance after wearing elegant cloths. (Sunan Ibn-e-Majah, Chapter Fitna-tun-Nisaa, page 297) It is clearly proved that women were allowed to enter in the Mosques with certain conditions as narrated above. Moreover that permission was before the mischievous period.
Accordingly in the period of Hadhrat Umar (Radhi Allahu Anhu) when the carelessness comes visible and mischief feared then Hadhrat Umar and other companions ordered the women not to come in the Mosques. This was appreciated by all the companions. (Al-Badai’; page 157 vol.1, 'Ainee, page 228 vol.3)
Similarly Hadhrat 'Aishah (Radhi Allahu Anha) felt this mischief then said “If the Prophet (Peace be upon Him) had seen that condition then he would had prevented the women to come in the Mosque as was done by the Bani Israel”. (Bukhari vol. 1 page 120) Similarly much has been said in Fiqh and traditions.
The conclusion is that as nowadays women are involved in disapproved activities, innovation in religion and fashionable hair styles and cloths which are entirely mischievous. Due to these reasons it is necessary for them to perform prayers in their homes and completely refrain themselves by going in the gathering of males.
Congregation Salaat of Women Only
Ques: Is it permissible for a woman to be an Imam, leading other ladies, during the Salaah? And if so, does the same apply to a woman as a man Imam i.e., does she say the Iqaamah?
Ans: Only women forming congregation (Jamaa’ah) for prayer is not advised to be good. It is must to avoid it.
If some woman who has learnt the Qur’an by heart and recite the whole Qur’an in Taraawih so that she may not forget it, or some other women want to perform the prayer and if the place of prayer is out of the way of people coming and going, then in this situation the woman leader of prayer (woman Imam) must stand beside the other women in the line (Saff) of Jamaa’ah rather than standing ahead of line.
Even now the women congregation for prayer would not be advisable. Therefore, it is better not to have a prayer congregation by women only.
(ref: Ash-Shaamiah; vol.1 p-566 & 588)
Istifta No. 17233
http://www.binoria.org/q&a/salaat.html#congregation
i believe this is with regard to the Hanafi school of thought.
As far as the beard is concerned:
Salaat behind a person who does not have Beard
Ques: I am unsure of some issues that we come across living here in the US where different madhaahib are being followed. Sometimes one comes to a Jamaa’at where the Salaat is already established and one sees the Imaam doesn’t have a beard or has a trimmed beard (but knows Masaa’il of Salaat and reads Qur’an well). Or even if Salaat is not yet established, they have already chosen who should lead and that person doesn’t have a full beard. What course of action should one take?
Ans: One who use to cut his beard or keeps it less than one fist, is a Faasiq (Transgressor) according to Shari’ah. To pray Salaat behind such person is Makrooh Tahreemi. Hence such person should not be appointed as Imam with authority.
However if one has to perform Salaat behind such person unwillingly then it is better to perform Salaat behind him than to perform alone. (ref: Ash-Shaamiah; vol1. p-560)
http://www.binoria.org/q&a/imam.html#beard
i hope this was helpful… May Allah forgive me for any errors I made.
-mehndi
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