It’s already happened in other aspects of life which twists .. Ahem … Of many men.
But when it comes to the horizontal tango, if you feel like initiating the act or being the dominating one, is it looked down upon? Guys are always talking about how Goris have more clout it’s because they are more sexually expressive. So if a desi woman is like that is she received positively by her husband or does it freak a desi guy out if his wife takes control of work in the bed?
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I think as long as the wife waits a couple of months ( not be like what you described in the very beginning of the marriage but yes after couple of months), even a desi husband would really appreciate that
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i think most would appreciate it.
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I'm guessing that at the start of a marriage, if the wife is dominant or takes the lead ...she might be suspected of being experienced. With time, it may be appreciated. I dunno...just guessing.
It COMPLETELY depends on the guy.
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I think it depends on the guy. Some men might find that intimidating...some men might not.
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I'm sure guys would love it.
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I'm guessing that at the start of a marriage, if the wife is dominant or takes the lead ...she might be suspected of being experienced. With time, it may be appreciated.** I dunno...just guessing**.
Don't worry, you're right. :)
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What's there to look down upon at? My hubby has nver made me feel like that ever..not even when we had just gotten married.
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I'd appreciate it.
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Baby steps mate!!!
Step1: Get a man
Step2: Think about bedroom action complexities
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I think u probably would still be shy in the beginning of ur marriage even if uv known each other for a long time before getting married. So it won't even come naturally in the beginning. But once u get comfortable and a little out of ur shell, ur husband will probably appreciate it.
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Why are we talking about men? They do not exist.
Excuse me please. Can I get a clarification. It's just an innocent enquiry.
Do you mean woman or women.
Thank You
Shareef insaan X2
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Guys are always talking about how Goris have more clout it's because they are more sexually expressive.
Pardon me..but where the heck ya get these sort of info from. Not all desi folks think that Goris have more going on then desis.
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The plentiful examples of men who think like that. That's the source, xtron.
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Depends on the guy!
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Being 'dominant in bed' and being enthusiastic/expressive/active/initiating are not necessarily the same thing. Why do poeple conflate the two?
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Who cares as long as you're getting laid regulalry.
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Who cares as long as you're getting laid regulalry.
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