*** a pro-islamic point of view
it is said, that a hadith tells us of women being created from a man’s rib.
molvis explain it, as adam being created first, then eve being created from his rib, and they mating to move on the human race.
however this is a great misunderstanding on the part of the molvis.
*** the real hadith says:
“accept my reminder, about treating women kindly, because women are made up of rib.”
*** an anti-islamic point of view
this hadith does not talk about eve, adams wife, but talks about women as a whole. it says ALL women are made of rib, and well how actually the women are born, is much evidently against this.
therefore any such meaning which talks about women being literally created from a man’s rib are not acceptable.
*** conclusion:
a pro-islamic, and anti-islamic may fight over this and end up in a fruitless quarrel. but none would try and understand what it really means.
*** taking the middle path:
taking the middle path is when we try and understand the meaning of this saying.
a molvi has to realize that those things which are evidently false must not be associated to islam, and quarreled about.
an anti-islamic must keep in mind, that mohammad was however a reliable man and such foolish things can not be associated to him.
*** the real meaning:
a little search will get us to he real meaning of the saying. when it is said, that a women is made from a rib, means that she has a habbit of disagreeing to the husband.it is her nature, that she feels like disagreeing to what her husband says, and loves to make him leave his point and listen to her. so it is seen that women rule their husbands heart and make them do things which they would not have liked to. such a habbit, in urdu is termed as “naaz nakhra!”
that is what mohammad has pointed out! dont be cruel to the women! dont make her listen to you by force! she wants to test his decisions, and that is her nature! thus he makes it compulsory for a man, to make his wife listen to him only by love and logic.
if he uses force, he will break the woman’s heart, and would cause much harm to the bond of love between them.
this is what the hadith points out to.
So be on watch for a day when heaven shall bring a manifest smoke
covering the people; this is a painful chastisement. ‘O our lord remove thou from us, the chastisement; we are believers.’ How should they have the reminder? seeing a clear Messenger has already come to them, then they turned away from him, and said,’ A man, tutored, possessed!"
( the koran, verse 11-14, chapter 44, Smoke, the nuclear explosion.)