I’ve noticed women, generally, getting very touchy on stuff like ‘why do guys prefer a gori ladki’ ‘why do guys like this why do guys like that’
Well I think women are more judgemental than men.
If a woman will go on about ‘tall’ guys or guys with the biggest wallets or the obsession with what his job is then a guy has every right to be just as judgemental.
Agree or disagree?
Just a debating point, mujh pur aanday mat phenkiye aap :roman:
And I agree too, I just find it hypocritical of women nit-picking at every little stuff in a guy and then when its the other way around they scream foul
As for tamaatar, nahi, paisay chalein gey lekin :roman:
Them’s some fighting words, man. aasteen ullat kay, getting into a fighting stance
As with anything in real life or Life1, the “general comment” of Shak’s is a generalization
Sure, SOME women are judgmental, but then so are SOME men. Actions have to be considered in context and without examining a cause, the action is meaningless. Specifically, why did the woman (or man) make/pass judgment on someone? What in her past colours her lens or perception of others or even herself?
Doesn’t mean that every woman’s judgmental actions can be rationalized - some are just mean and petty, but for the majority, their actions are borne out of a reason - maybe something in their history/their own insecurity which makes them see the world and judge others the way they do.
You make it sound as if their silly judgemental behaviour is justified Bad stuff happens to everyone in life, doesn’t mean one has to see the world in half-visible biased-tinted glasses.
My bad, I forget persons of the female persuasion are supposed to be twirling their hair, popping gum, discussing the latest fashions, complaining about the in-laws, and saying men are pigs. I must revert to type. Next time Pir Sahab
It is hypocritical. And unfortunately, it's not some but many women who do this. I don't see what's wrong in a guy finding one skin tone more attractive over another. The problem starts ONLY when people and families talk about darker girls as being flawed and treat them as second class to their fair-skinned sisters etc. if they have any.
Beyond that, a guy liking light-skinned girls is no different, better or worse than girls preferring tall/rich/well-built/non-squeaky voiced/broad-shouldered/ god-knows-what-else guys.
u are right amigo..I agree even we go by what I have read on life1.
Ditto. But its same with women off the net too and i think its unfair. Just like a girl may have reservations about marrying someone who has a job as oppose to his own business, i think same way a guy can have for marrying a tall girl as oppose to a shorter one. Though a women's reservation MAY make more sense to most people but the bottom line is every individual has a right to their opinion and choice so let them be :).