Women and being judgemental

I’ve noticed women, generally, getting very touchy on stuff like ‘why do guys prefer a gori ladki’ ‘why do guys like this why do guys like that’

Well I think women are more judgemental than men.

If a woman will go on about ‘tall’ guys or guys with the biggest wallets or the obsession with what his job is then a guy has every right to be just as judgemental.

Agree or disagree?

Just a debating point, mujh pur aanday mat phenkiye aap :roman:

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timatar chalein gaye?

u are right amigo..I agree even we go by what I have read on life1.

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And I agree too, I just find it hypocritical of women nit-picking at every little stuff in a guy and then when its the other way around they scream foul

As for tamaatar, nahi, paisay chalein gey lekin :roman:

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they judge and they are mental

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Them’s some fighting words, man. aasteen ullat kay, getting into a fighting stance

As with anything in real life or Life1, the “general comment” of Shak’s is a generalization :rolleyes:

Sure, SOME women are judgmental, but then so are SOME men. Actions have to be considered in context and without examining a cause, the action is meaningless. Specifically, why did the woman (or man) make/pass judgment on someone? What in her past colours her lens or perception of others or even herself?

Doesn’t mean that every woman’s judgmental actions can be rationalized - some are just mean and petty, but for the majority, their actions are borne out of a reason - maybe something in their history/their own insecurity which makes them see the world and judge others the way they do.

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i’m a lover not a fighter
aasteen ullat kay, getting into a loving stance

i think generally u are right :slight_smile:

hey now, why are you being so sensible and stuff..:smack:

poora thread kharab kar diya

mods please delete her post, its too sensible

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Bus kabhi gharoor nahi kiya :blush:

You make it sound as if their silly judgemental behaviour is justified :frowning: Bad stuff happens to everyone in life, doesn’t mean one has to see the world in half-visible biased-tinted glasses.

In short, admit it I am right :frowning:

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My bad, I forget persons of the female persuasion are supposed to be twirling their hair, popping gum, discussing the latest fashions, complaining about the in-laws, and saying men are pigs. I must revert to type. Next time Pir Sahab :wink:

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It is hypocritical. And unfortunately, it's not some but many women who do this. I don't see what's wrong in a guy finding one skin tone more attractive over another. The problem starts ONLY when people and families talk about darker girls as being flawed and treat them as second class to their fair-skinned sisters etc. if they have any.

Beyond that, a guy liking light-skinned girls is no different, better or worse than girls preferring tall/rich/well-built/non-squeaky voiced/broad-shouldered/ god-knows-what-else guys.

Girls need to quit whining.

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Should I close this thread :chai:.

Women and judgemental omg omg omg omg :hayaa:

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I'd like to pose a question. Why does everything on life1 end up being men vs women?

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Sometimes yes I agree

Why do you bully me :frowning:

Though try it :snooty:

God made us that way :hinna:

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In the saaas and bahu related arguments who is the man.
I mean if the bahu is in fact a man then I suppose the saad has some reason to complain.

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why you are asking that?? you should know your 'kind'..i mean the female kind..

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I feel you . Let me purpose a separate form for transvestites :k:

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^:omg:

Men, don’t think too highly of yourselves, you’re just as judgmental; however, are good at being sneaky about it:snooty:!

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Aww thanks, hum gharoor karnay waalay nahi :blush:

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Ditto. But its same with women off the net too and i think its unfair. Just like a girl may have reservations about marrying someone who has a job as oppose to his own business, i think same way a guy can have for marrying a tall girl as oppose to a shorter one. Though a women's reservation MAY make more sense to most people but the bottom line is every individual has a right to their opinion and choice so let them be :).

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haha X2 and Namaan very funny...and NomiCA I'm not sure what you are trying to get at :S

I was going to explain my earlier statement further but I'd rather not.

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Pleae go on...i was trying to get at something but now i forgot..