Woman's role in this world

This is an article by Mufti Ebrahim Desai in response to Amina Wadud (who led Jumuah salaat).. I was going to post it in the “qazi” thread but felt this deserved its own thread.. Some of you will get offended or what not but know that Mufti sahab is speaking with wisdom.

The programme of Amina Wadud lecturing and leading a mixed gathering for Jumua’h is motivated by her incorrect perception of the role of a Muslim woman.

It is commonly propagated by the west that Islam has stifled women and has imprisoned them within the four walls. Unfortunately in recent times we find individuals who in the name of Islam seek to promote this very philosophy with increasing frequency. The reason is that the propagandists do not consider the basic aim of women’s creation. The truth is that it is Allah who has created this Universe and its main inmates, men and women.

The perception that is promoted is that women should also work side by side with men. In the zeal of their ceaseless propaganda, they have failed to reflect that if men and women were created for the same kind of work, why was it necessary to create them with different physical characteristics and bodily constitutions?

Who can deny the fact that men and women have different bodily systems, habits, sentiments, susceptibilities and mental trends?! Allah has created each sex with different constitutions. To declare that there is no difference between men and women is self deception and a revolt against nature, because it is disbelieving our very eyes and senses.

The difference between the physical constitution and sentimental trends of each cannot be effaced by artificial means, for e.g. Putting on the same garments or having the same hairstyle. The fact remains that the difference between men and women is too palpable to be denied and too real and true to be ignored.

It is clear from the teachings of the Qur’aan and Sunnah that Human life stands divided into two branches:
a) The domestic affairs of life.
b) The outdoor affairs of life.

Each branch is complimentary to each other. It is impossible to lead a balanced and moderate life without taking into account and meeting the requirements of both the branches of life. It is equally important to plan the domestic as well as the outdoor demands of life. Mans life can be stabilized with the help of these two branches. If one branch is ignored or preferred over the other, life will become disorganized and unbalanced.

For the eyes to assume superiority over the nose because it is in an anatomically higher position is preposterous. The superiority of the Nose is easily rectified in the absence of light. Yet to further suppose that the Nose is superior to the hands, since it can smell that which cannot be felt, can be cast aside when plagued by a common cold. Yet when all these parts are in danger, it is the feet who usher on a hasty retreat and so becomes the hero of the day.

Simply put different circumstances require different priorities and different reactions. No part takes preference or position over the other. For in the ultimate act of obedient submission, the Eyes, the Nose, the Hands and the Feet all bow down humbly for the pleasure of their Lord.

Allah has distributed the duties between two sexes in such a way that men have been made responsible for outdoor duties, e.g. Earning a livelihood and looking after political and social affairs and women have been made responsible for domestic duties.

If an intelligent survey of natural peculiarities of Man’s creation, it will have to be admitted that there can be no better arrangement of the distribution of duties between men and women.
The Qur’aan has issued a divine command addressed directly to the sacred wives of the Holy Prophet SAW and indirectly to all Muslim women.

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“Remain in your houses”
This verse points out that women should stay in their houses and look after all household affairs.
Sayyiduna Ali RA and Sayyidatuna Faatima RA distributed their duties in such a way that Sayyiduna Ali RA. executed the outdoor duties and Sayyidatuna Faatima RA. managed the domestic affairs.

Almighty Allah has created women to look after the household affairs, to manage them and stabilize the family system. As soon as she went out of the house, it had to be locked because both the parents are out on their jobs the children in their schools. The family system is thus totally shattered.

Women were created to remain in the house, to look after its affairs and to bring up the children in her affectionate lap. The mother’s lap is the first training school for her child. It is there that the child learns the principles of morality, character and living. This parental care and love is not available to children of today and the family system has been totally shattered.

The husband and wife are working in different places in an atmosphere of free society and they have no contact with each other during their working hours. Sometimes this mode of working serves to weaken their relations as husband and wife, giving rise to unlawful contact with strangers. This, in turn may ultimately lead to divorce and destruction of the home.

In conclusion, I sincerely advise the Muslim Ummah to exercise caution with regard to the devious and corruptive attempts by Dr Wadud to mislead and deviate them and to place complete reliance on the true philosophy enshrined in the Qur’aan and sunnah of Rasulullah [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam], which was that of the Sahaaba and that of every true scholar of Islam until present day.

At this juncture, I wish to mention an article written by the former USSR President Mr. Michael Gorbachev in his book entitled “Prostrika” In this book; he has included a chapter called “Status of women” In this chapter he has clearly written:

"The women in our western society were driven out of the homes. As a result of her expulsion from the home, we gained some economic benefits in the form of some production, because men and women are both working. Despite the increase in production, its inevitable result was that our family system was shattered. The loss sustained by this destruction of the family system is more than the gains obtained from increase in production. I am, therefore going to launch in my country a campaign in the name of “Prostika” The basic objective of this campaign is to think how we can bring back to her home the women who has gone out of her home. We have to think about this; otherwise the entire nation will be destroyed.

Thus when even the Kuffaar have realised the ill effects of this philosophy, it is unfortunate that ‘Muslims’ are now taking up the mistakes of the Kuffaar.

and Allah ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

JazakAllah, What a beautiful article.

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For the eyes to assume superiority over the nose because it is in an anatomically higher position is preposterous. The superiority of the Nose is easily rectified in the absence of light. Yet to further suppose that the Nose is superior to the hands, since it can smell that which cannot be felt, can be cast aside when plagued by a common cold. Yet when all these parts are in danger, it is the feet who usher on a hasty retreat and so becomes the hero of the day.
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It becomes so hard for Muslim men and Women of our time to swallow whats written in these articles, due to the conditioning which we go through in a capitalist free market world.

Sh. Hamza Yusuf said it best, he states that we are conditioned to live a hectic fast paced life where our ultimate goal is shifted from the Akhirah to the world. This is what the west imposes upon individuals and we submit willfully. Complaints of "I need to make a living" and "This is the only way of life" appear on the scene which are totally irrelevant to whats required of us as Muslims.

There is a proper system of living, of sustaining mankind. There is a lifestyle which can bring prosperity to our lives and the lives of every human being on the planet. There is a system out there.

Uswah-e-Hasanah, the perfect example was the Prophet pbuh, and he has left us a beautiful and complete way of life which we ALL should adhere to inshAllah.

I pray Allah guides me, allows me to establish this lifestyle, and allow this Ummah to become one under it.

Re: Woman's role in this world

^ Ameen.

Speaking of lifestyle, one only need to observe the lifestyle of our Ulema (May Allah preserve them), such a beautiful life they are living mash'Allah, it only comes from our Propher pbuh! If only we could have just an understanding of this, we would be better off.

Re: Woman's role in this world

The Mufti has seemed to have lost sight of the real problem, in his haste to counter people like Amina Wadud.

I think people like Hamza Yusef get it...and that's the real plight of modern life with respect to our faith is that we're not meant to be automatons, or mere economic units of activity. We're people...meant to live a life of devotion. The real trouble starts with men, who spend more time at work than looking after the family...under the rubric of "providing". How much do you need to provide? Yes, there is a flip side to better social organization...and no, free markets are not inherently un-Islamic (I wish some of our religious ideologues who were brought up during the cold war would change their tune...the old anti-capitalist rhetoric they lifted from the Soviets is getting old).

In any case, this has nothing to do with women working...it has everything to do with the compulsion of either men or women to put in 9-5, 5 to 6 day weeks for some...abstract organization. There was a time when people worked for themselves and their family...if they didn't...they were slaves.

Re: Woman's role in this world

Do we work to live, or live to work?