Re: Woman as Mother Verses Wife
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WHY would anyone compare themselves to his mother? Who wants to be viewed as their husband’s mommy? barf
The other thing is…these arguments usually come up when the guy is too weak to balance his parents and wife/kids.
BRAVOOOOO! ENCORE! ENCORE!
The thing is shugali…
Boys take a lot of work to raise and girls just raise themselves you know. When a baby girl is born, she feeds herself, changes her own diapers and even pays for her own college education that Allah swt sends for them in a magical envelope. Parents never have a pay a red cent for their baby girls.
But BABY BOYS…oh my gosh…its THEM that take the work. Yeah, and since mothers work so hard before getting pregnant to ensure they have baby boys, they deserve to be exalted and revered above all. I mean, its not like Allah swt decides who will have what gender baby, its all decided by us mortals so the mother of a baby boy deserves MUCH MUCH MUCH more respect than anyone else in the entire world.
I hope I have captured the essence of your post shugali. You truly are a blessing to us women who need to know how much more respect a son’s mother deserves than that of a mere girl. Us girls need to stick together you know…gotta teach each other how much harder a son’s mother has it in this world.
When I get married, I want to be just like you shugali!