As a mother: They carry the baby (specifically about boys) as part of their body for 9 months and then they bring them to this world through a very painful process. Then they take of babies, love them. Sacrifice their day and night to up bring the child to the utmost possibility. Do their best and they do it in the same way for almost every child.
The kid is adult now…educated, strong & Young. Mother is old now. She wants her son to get married.
He gets married…and then the girl who come to this guys life she mostly have issues with this or that.
****(AS A WIFE)
She has issues with sisters of the husband
with the Father of husband
with mother of husband
with every one who might be sharing benefits (emotional, physical (not OPP gender related , materialistic) of that person.
She will stop talking/protest on anything which goes against her will/wish
She might leave the husband if she finds out him being shared with another woman.
Briefly, This SIDE of Woman want to POSSES all in no time. Without any extra stake holder.
About being shared with an other woman they say “because we love our husband we cant share”
Mothers love their sons too, they can say the same???
**Woman as a mother never thinks of leaving the kidz…no matter what. when she DOES NOT expect anything in return.
Woman as a wife will think many time ( there are times in every married life specially in start) when they MAY think of leaving the husband.
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Point is if it is love… love is unconditional !
Mother is a woman so is the wife.
Mother raises the child with all her love and puts up all her efforts and then HAND OVER it to an OTHER woman .
The OTHER woman wants HIM & That too ALL… they call it being possessive or love.
“Yea maaiyon ka itna jigra hota hay k wo apney jisam k hisay ko itna barra kar k aik aur aurat k hiwalay akr deti hay aur phir bhi ziada tar koi umeed nahi rakhti ya rakhay bhi to pura na honay k bawajood uss ke mohabbat main kami nahi aati.”
OR
“Yea bewiyaan itni tangdil aur kameeni hoti hain k wo mohabbat aur shuahar k naam per aik mard ko sirf apna he dekhna chahti hain. agar yea mohabbat hoti hay to yea “unconditional” kyon nahi hoti. aur waqi yea mohabbat hoti hay to phir yea khatam bhi kyon ho jati hai. even after kidz.”
p:S ( i am not comparing relationaship between Saas and Bahu, i am comparing relationship with A MAN of his wife & his mother. Secondly i dont understand this myth of love of woman. i am a girl my self but i dont understand this) ![]()