OYMWA
December 9, 2014, 4:43pm
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Re: Wives on Tinder
Actually tinder is not designed to be a hook-up site, it is designed to meet random people and make friends without any focus on hook-ups. Although it is being used only for the latter purpose, and since y’all feel that it is wrong for married and committed people to be on this app, let me remind you fundamentally our culture and religion doesn’t allows any kind of hook-up even if you are not in a relationship or married. Being on tinder and sliding na-mehrams right and left would be wrong in the first place.
And since non-of-you guys have a problem with that but do have a problem with committed people looking for hook-ups, therefore I find this argument hypocritical. We all have our personal rights and wrongs. All the wrongs we do, we justify them in our minds as rights. If they are on tinder they have the right to be without being judged, at least give them the benefit of doubt. Maybe, just maybe they are there to make friends without any intention of cheating.
Why are you taking this so personally? It is a public site; am certain the ones who signed up don’t really care about being judged. The ones that do, don’t sign up.