__I hope people don’t mind me posting incidents form my real life. Its easy to make a point
that way. That is way I do it.
Question is, how you find the balance in some ones behavior? How do you know you are
being treated right.
Now she had to go live with the parents. But then she could not leave me home. Once in
while I get call so I go over. Which is fine. However FIL/MIL can’t no I am there. I have to
take shoes and jacket in “her” room, which is mostly pink. Other night I picked up my
shoes and she goes “give them to me I want to carry them” She insisted.
I felt so special 
She acted like my maid.
Few hrs later in the same meeting, I said some thing she did not like, she goes “what the F”
Looked very upset too. After that slapped me on arm lightly, then on my forehead
lightly… anger did not go down. Next she slapped on my face and this time real hard.
At that time I did not feel so special. 
I comforted her and all. But now I am home alone thinking. Where to find the balance.
Who is the real her? one who carried my shoes or the one who slapped me?
