How do you talk to a guy staying in limits so that that person doesn’t fall for you or something? Please, it’s not for me, just a random thought came in to my mind. Was remembering something.
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It is technically impossible to do that with a desi. Or at least 99% of the desis anyways.
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stay quiet. dont be friends with em.
in my high school and even in undergrads i keep this strategy (even though i am not i am not like this in general). I did it cuz i know i cant afford relationships (though i wasn't aware of much of Islam's teaching in this regard).
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Just call him "bhai" after every other word.
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RedV I am really liking your answer. 
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No illegal pappis and jhappis.
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Are you sure you posted in the right thread luv?
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"bhai" theory will work perfectly alright unless you want to leave doors open ;)
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Decent it doesn't work always. Next thing you know the dude will be like "sorry, I couldn't help it". Dil ka mamla hai or some shizz like that lol.
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Just call him Uncle…
Oh wait that din’t work either 
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Decent it doesn't work always. Next thing you know the dude will be like "sorry, I couldn't help it". Dil ka mamla hai or some shizz like that lol.
here is your next line
"aap ko sharam nahi ateee behen-bhai k pakeeza rishtey ko aisa mooor (turn) daitey howey"
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Lol Sheyn!
Decent, mera nahi khiyal aaj kal ke larko larkiyon ko itni achi urdu aati hai ke woh yeh samjh jayeinge
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Decent it doesn't work always. Next thing you know the dude will be like "sorry, I couldn't help it". Dil ka mamla hai or some shizz like that lol.
I disagree !!
Most guys take the "bhai" thing pretty seriously , most wudn't let u call them bhai if they had any other intentions but if they do allow u to call them bhai then they honour that pretty much !!!!!!
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Ummm, I didn’t know that people fall for each other that quickly. 
People can never fall for you unless you allow them to venture into your territories. I strongly believe that.
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It is technically impossible to do that with a desi. Or at least 99% of the desis anyways.
Errr... bhai barfeeli rooh, there are lots of ladies who talk to me everyday (office assiatnce, gas station cashier, bank teller, post office clerk) and I dont fall for anyone of those. What is with this generalization?
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^^^ phew
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Interesting. However, I have seen it happening. Myself seen it with my own eyes and was dragged in to something bad too. The guy fell in love with this girl even though woh us ko ghas bhi nahi dalti thi.
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There might be a random case here and there, but usually it isn't that way.
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Lady ji asking this question and seeking answers is like banging your head agiants a wall :p Some men are dheet.