My question is, can a man be with a woman for this much time and still not fall in love with her? Could it be possible that he's still considering the whole relationship to be a pastime?
Riya .....i think YES .....a man and woman can be just good friends......
there is a difference in loving someone as a friend and being "in love" with someone........
you can still love your friend and vice versa without strings attached as long as both of you are clear from the outset that you understand what the friendship entails and that its not "headed" anywhere .......
i'm not saying ppl don't fall in love during the course of such a friendship , they might but it doesn't always have to be an eventuality !
My question is, can a man be with a woman for this much time and still not fall in love with her? Could it be possible that he's still considering the whole relationship to be a pastime?
YES.... I am going to say this in the nicest way possible.....
some men may be with a woman just because it is convenient.
"pastime" means just that ....she is just someone to "past the time" with until another comes along. He is simply mimicking a normal relationship without having any strings attached.
agreed…key word being SHOULD. some girls should but they would rather turn a blind eye to it (cuz they are playing the same game lol) or they are indeed really dumb!
So the general consensus is that sex doesnt make a man fall in love Nothing can make him fall in love with her if he doesnt want to.
I know its crazy but I really truly do believe that if a woman starts out just sexing a man (sorry for the crudeness), love follows thereafter granted they spend long periods of tiem togehter.. She falls in love with him. Not just his parts, but all of him. The whole man that he is.
Men begin with calling/texting.. sending u sweet messages.. doing special things for u.. sending u precious presents, pampering u with the best and then one fne day they have this line "I don't think it's really working out.."
The question wasnt if man and woman could just be friends, of course they can! The question is can a man date a woman for x amount of time and still never develop any feelings deeper and beyond lust and liking for her. Could he still never fall in love with her and never even consider her his everything and picturing and deciding that she is going to be the last woman he is with i.e. make her his wife.
your friend needs shock treatment. She can be treating an A-hole with her best self.
And wasting best year of her life!!!
Some time If we put a pause on humping we can find true love.
Men begin with calling/texting.. sending u sweet messages.. doing special things for u.. sending u precious presents, pampering u with the best and then one fne day they have this line "I don't think it's really working out.."
Now riya this is a good example of shock treatment/therapy .
On a serius note it never "works out" you actually make it work.
In one move guy says "from one happy time, you work thought to next happy time "
I think commitment and loyalty is more important then lovey dovey talk.
We were made with brains, how ever due to technical errors girls didn't get them.
So there was call after to get them, apparently most women missed it.