Winning arguments to loose atl life

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Mod free month is no fun :(

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this is like the purge… :eek:

oh how evil man can be.

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one benefit of mod-free month…you can see people’s true colours shine…
and no…that’s not directed at queer.
:cb:

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so sad how much hate people have JUST for people on the internet. your hearts black hottie/eliminator/shawana.....boo.

bitterpeoplesuck

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ek buRhiyaa mar gaii…ghar waale ro rahe the…sab ne dilaasa diyaa yeh kah kar k Allah ne marHooma ko ek lambii umr dii aur unheN ab jannat naseeb karegaa aur aapko sabr e jamiil…aameen

is par ronewaalaa bolaa…“maiN is liye nahiiN ro rahaa k buRhiyaa mar gaii, maiN to is liye ro rahaa bal k farishtoN ne meraa ghar dekh liyaa hai…ab agar unkaa roz kaa aanaa jaanaa lag gayaa to?” :cb:

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Interesting topic. I just have one question for RV, you know this is a multi, but still u r writing such long paragraphs, why?

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Same reason everyone else is.
For funsies.

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Notice the words, "days of ignorance." These words provide an overall stance for the hadith. Any practice that is associated with the "days of ignorance" ...irrespective of culture is not meant to be followed, nor is it held in high regard.

There were many other disturbing practices during the period of Jahiliya or Days of Ignorance....such as burying infant girls alive, unlimited marriages, doing tawaf around the kaaba in nakedness, etc....that were abolished by Islam. The person speaking in the hadith is Amru bin Maimun and he does not speak of the practice as something that was maintained after the advent of Islam, but rather that it was an ignorant practice of former times.

Also, the hadith is just the telling of an account. It is not attributed to the Prophet SAWS. It does not say that it was a practice that the Prophet encouraged, or that he did himself, or that he was even seen doing by others. The hadith doesn't tell us to do anything, it doesn't mention rules or laws that need to be followed. Any practice that is associated with "ignorance" is not to be followed.

This was the first time that I've come across such a hadith and my curiosity led me to Google it. Now I don't expect Hottie to even consider my response in an unbiased way, let alone be convinced. I highly doubt that she's looking for clarification. It seems more likely that she posted this hadith to validate her own bias toward Islam whilst maybe also hoping that the hadith will mislead others. So, I'm not trying to convince Hottie with these paragraphs. Rather I'm just posting what I found online in case others were also curious.

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Teen mard... Teen kahaniyan!!!

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Hottie was posting as a "she" a few days ago. So it should be...

Aik Aurat, Do Mard.....Sau Afsaanay.

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Notice the words, "days of ignorance." These words provide an overall stance for the hadith. Any practice that is associated with the "days of ignorance" ...irrespective of culture is not meant to be followed, nor is it held in high regard.

There were many other disturbing practices during the period of Jahiliya or Days of Ignorance....such as burying infant girls alive, unlimited marriages, doing tawaf around the kaaba in nakedness, etc....that were abolished by Islam. The person speaking in the hadith is Amru bin Maimun and he does not speak of the practice as something that was maintained after the advent of Islam, but rather that it was an ignorant practice of former times.

Also, the hadith is just the telling of an account. It is not attributed to the Prophet SAWS. It does not say that it was a practice that the Prophet encouraged, or that he did himself, or that he was even seen doing by others. The hadith doesn't tell us to do anything, it doesn't mention rules or laws that need to be followed. Any practice that is associated with "ignorance" is not to be followed.

This was the first time that I've come across such a hadith and my curiosity led me to Google it. Now I don't expect Hottie to even consider my response in an unbiased way, let alone be convinced. I highly doubt that she's looking for clarification. It seems more likely that she posted this hadith to validate her own bias toward Islam whilst maybe also hoping that the hadith will mislead others. So, I'm not trying to convince Hottie with these paragraphs. Rather I'm just posting what I found online in case others were also curious.
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I am still as confused, what is legal or illegal sex in monkeys, animals cannot distinguish between right and wrong so can't be held accountable for their actions, your post is suggesting that prior to Islam monkeys used to stone other monkeys for illegal sex and stopped the practice afterwards. There has to be another explanation that at this time I can't think of. Thanks for trying

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hagagagaagahaga

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^There is no concept of marriage among animals. But I have read that among some animals (such as monkeys) there is a more developed concept of "mates"...and it can cause a ruckus among the monkeys if a female mates with a monkey other than whom she she had first paired up with. Animals don't have a developed moral system of right and wrong that humans do, but they can be very territorial and possessive of their surroundings and mates. I have only briefly read this, but you can research the topic further. Maybe there is some truth to this as I've read that the Arabs have a saying, "Adulterous as a monkey." It's possible that the saying came about after a pattern of observations of monkeys. The group/social dynamics of animals vary from one species to the next. If one animal from a herd starts running...the rest will follow. So, it could be that among monkeys...if one monkey hurls a stone at another, the rest will follow. If this is not unusual behavior for monkeys, then it still must happen today. Maybe they don't always stone ...but they could resort to other aggressive behaviors like screeching, attacking, etc.

I think the speaker in the hadith, Amru bin Maimun was referring mostly to his own behavior as one of ignorance...because the opposite of ignorance is knowledge/sense...and these things are expected from human beings, not animals. Animals....while they do display intelligence in some capacity....are still considered ignorant. Reformation or revolution or moving from ignorance to enlightenment is for humans, not animals.

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Sirf aik awrat beeti umer na koi kahani na koi afsana sirf tanhai aur tnhai

keep insulting me and I you, I can do it forever

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^Hottie, if you were gonna come back as a multi, then you should have at least kept the gender the same. Singledom is not uncommon on GS; there are many besides me that are single and if you think that it's such a pitiful/shameful existence, then you're looking down on the other single folk here as well.

So, my case is not that special or unusual and can't compete in attention with the persistent, inflammatory ruckus produced by a single person under the guise of three multis and two genders. If you feel that you are superior to me and the other singletons on here because of your "married" status....and if you feel that this status makes your life a helluva lot better than ours......then it should come with greater contentment and maturity, which is not showing in your posts.

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Notice the words, "days of ignorance." These words provide an overall stance for the hadith. Any practice that is associated with the "days of ignorance" ...irrespective of culture is not meant to be followed, nor is it held in high regard.

There were many other disturbing practices during the period of Jahiliya or Days of Ignorance....such as burying infant girls alive, unlimited marriages, doing tawaf around the kaaba in nakedness, etc....that were abolished by Islam. The person speaking in the hadith is Amru bin Maimun and he does not speak of the practice as something that was maintained after the advent of Islam, but rather that it was an ignorant practice of former times.

Also, the hadith is just the telling of an account. It is not attributed to the Prophet SAWS. It does not say that it was a practice that the Prophet encouraged, or that he did himself, or that he was even seen doing by others. The hadith doesn't tell us to do anything, it doesn't mention rules or laws that need to be followed. Any practice that is associated with "ignorance" is not to be followed.

This was the first time that I've come across such a hadith and my curiosity led me to Google it. Now I don't expect Hottie to even consider my response in an unbiased way, let alone be convinced. I highly doubt that she's looking for clarification. It seems more likely that she posted this hadith to validate her own bias toward Islam whilst maybe also hoping that the hadith will mislead others. So, I'm not trying to convince Hottie with these paragraphs. Rather I'm just posting what I found online in case others were also curious.
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u r right, this hadith really has nothing to do with Islam, I will acknowledge when I am wrong, and most of the times I will acknowledge I am wrong even If I am right if it means keeping a friendship

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assumptions, yes I am going thru personal struggles and this is why I am not content, I kind of decided to dedicate our lives to our kids, all of them are competitive athletes and honor students that means that every ounce of energy we have, we have to dedicate to raising them, she gets up at 5.30 to drive the older to training, I feed the other two and take them to their practice, as every one knows how I love sex, nothing happening there if u work till 9 and get up at 5.30 u have t sacrifice that too. N had to quit her 100k job so she could drive them around. Tonight when I came home she was all teary and said the kids here are ungrateful and they won't appreciate what we do for them, I told her, Yes I know and I am not doing it to expect anything back, I just want to see them be the best they can be and in the end it will be just me and you. But having to stop socializing, working your butt off to pay 30k in sports and cover for 100k in lost income, have no time for intimacy and do the chores and expect nothing back in return is easer said then done and kind of makes one miserable...sports becomes your life and religion....but when I look at S I know we made the right choice, S was the weakest in his class now he is the strongest in his school, tall trim wide shoulders ripped and shredded, girls start choking when he talks to them. Now another problem arises, first it was lack of confidence now N thinks he is becoming narcissist, you can maybe advise on how to bring him down a couple of pegs without destroying his confidence.

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You're so busy yet you have time to operate three accounts on GS, write long paragraphs and humiliate others.

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Real Estate is like that, you need to be available but with a lot of down time, I only humiliated people that humiliate me, I was called Khotey ki auld, my honey should be raped by blacks, she should puke at me. this new one kept insulting my mother and her grave...some people need to be put in their place...Marital rape thread is very very personal and the way our typical community treated a battered twice divorced woman when I married her was appalling and I have a need to give hypocrites with that mentality a piece of my mind. Every humiliation is in retaliation.

I can not forget the trauma she was in for years and I have a seething anger towards a culture that will allow this to happen. PS it is 6 am and I am waiting for the 2 to get up.

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So you are angry with the entire Pakistani culture because of the actions of a few select people? Do you really think that every single Pakistani person is to blame for what happened to your ex-wife? As far as the culture allowing her to be mistreated, it was your ex-wife's circle of acquaintances that allowed her to be mistreated and consequently treated her badly, not the posters on here and certainly not the entire Pakistani community. You're being rather presumptuous to assume that the posters on her approve of the appalling manner in which your ex-wife was treated. Seriously, what makes you think that every single Pakistani has the same mentality? You claim to be open minded yet you have decided to judge an entire group of people based on the actions of a few people and refuse to consider that not everyone falls into your generalisation? Shakes my head...