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What's beef?
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You were the reason I joined
damn... now they have a real reason to ban me. :(
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Dude, Queer has more balls than you. You willingly and rather shamelessly traded yours in for a pair of boobs with your new multi. 
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Now it's eliminator, shawn AND hottie24. I don't understand why u need multiple nicks to act the same way. Isn't it supposed to display an alternate personality? creating multiple usernames? I don't get it.
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that was even out of line for rv… no?
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that was even out of line for rv.... no?
Yes, cuz RV is a saint.
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queer
adjective
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- strange; odd.
The correct definition of queer (as opposed to the vulgar slang quoted above). It’s likely that this is the definition queer had in mind. What’s wrong with being a bit odd? 
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[quote=“redvelvet, post:139, topic:306174”]
You and your string of anecdotes, Hottie.
You and I have different definitions of intelligence, but for me it goes beyond being highly educated, having a strong vocabulary, and a sharp wit. An intelligent girl would not struggle so much with maintaining her relationships as the girl in your post has.
Would the girl, despite her huge ego, also resort to cheating on her spouse, abandoning her children, and selling her body? The man who screwed around on his wife, walked out on his kids, and got into prostitution has worse deep-rooted issues than just a massive ego. There is more than just stubbornness at play with him.
What exactly is the purpose of this thread? Are you trying to tell us that karma strikes those who hurt others? Sure, it does. It transcends culture, and gender, and one doesn’t even need to repent or lie peacefully in the bed they’ve made for themselves to be inflicted by it’s wrath. It strikes us all; not exempting you.
Enabling? Bailing the girl out would not be the first time her family has “enabled” her…she must have been enabled in her childhood many times to get to the stage that she is currently at. If she has spent any time at all suffering behind bars, then hopefully the experience will have made her smarter and she would make the effort not to repeat it. Whether her guidance and reformation will stem from her family’s involvement in her life or from their abandoning her to her own devices as a form of “tough love”…leave that to Allah. It is not your concern.
The old man doesn’t have enablers around him, his family wants little to do with him, but he still does what he wants to do. Yes, there are people like this in the world. But he is still suffering despite his attitude of entitlement…despite his failure to admit his mistakes…despite his refusal to lie quietly in the bed he has made for himself. He is thrashing around in bed for the pain he’s caused others…does that make you happy, Hottie, or is that not enough for you? Even his family are not as concerned about him as YOU are.
Once AGAIN, what the hell is the purpose of your thread? Do you want to discuss the forms and pros and cons of enabling? Do you want to encourage members to concur with your ill opinion of this girl and man…and start thoo-thoo’ing or bashing them? Do you want members to share their own anecdotes of people who are leading difficult lives? What would this accomplish other than develop a smug separation in our minds of “us” and “them”…where “them” are the wretched souls to be pitied? AGAIN, Oprah…what the hell is the “noble” purpose of your thread or even return to GS?
If Allah has given you blessings in terms of a career, a marriage, family, etc …that you believe the “lonely” girl, the wretched old man, and others are deficient in…then thank Him for it as opposed to nursing an attitude of self-satisfaction and disgust. And next time, try to make your threads have a coherent theme…or at least do a better job in concealing your motives; it’s been very transparent thus far./QUOTE
Temporary Cease Fire/// let us discuss seriously, I believe in actions have consequences and a person committing bad actions should pay the price, maybe if it is an occasional thing than let us forgive but if it is a pattern than his fate should serve as a deterrent, as I told his son that u need to make deposits to withdraw, how should a jerk and a dedicated parent deserve the same respect. My opinion is respect is earned, I have instructed my kids to only respect me if they think I am worthy of respect. As Arisotle put it, you are what you do on a repeated basis.
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^Thank you, Mezghan. I was thinking of including that definition. Now hottie can expand her vocabulary.
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Queer adjective
- 1. strange; odd.
What Century..u r too simple, try calling a big guy that I will give you 1k if u don't get beat red and blue, at least u r now bonding with rv, u owe me one...Gay means happy, fruit cake means a cake, flamer means using flame.
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maybe you both ought to take this elsewhere
its all sounding rather petty now
thanksmuch
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What Century..u r too simple, try calling a big guy that I will give you 1k if u don't get beat red and blue, at least u r now bonding with rv, u owe me one...Gay means happy, fruit cake means a cake, flamer means using flame.
Sorry me no fight ju, I did not know it was your post, seriously though it is not used in that context any more.
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Hottie was born English so don’t you dare teaching her new vocab RV 
;)
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I luv those,
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Okay, being “gay” is considered an aberration even today. Using the word queer as slang for homosexuality is reinforcing the original definition of “strange” …“odd”…“aberration.” That said queer does not strictly mean gay, it’s used for aberrations in general.
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[quote=“redvelvet, post:2353, topic:306547”]
Okay, being “gay” is considered an aberration even today. Using the word queer as slang for homosexuality is reinforcing the original definition of “strange” …“odd”…“aberration.” That said queer does not strictly mean gay, it’s used for aberrations in general. :rolleyes:[/QUOhttp://www.queerfilmfestival.ca/#TE]
Here is an example
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If someone described something like a house...or a smile...as queer....would you take that to mean that the house and smile are gay? No you wouldn't. It's because the definition of the word is "strange"....it's not gay. Homosexuality is believed to be strange, hence queer is used for it as slang. The overall definition of queer is strange, not gay. I can only guess as to why Queer picked such a username. But I think it was done to create irony..because his posts are anything but "gay" in their tone. Another reason could be to cause deliberate confusion as "queer" is ambiguous in meaning due to it's multiple usages in language. It may even be to emphasize an overall strangeness. But I don't think it's meant to be taken literally.
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I guess McGill is very strange…and bunny of peace, how gay can you get…If he is I accept him but if he isn’t COME ONNN!!!
They have claimed the word..give it up, ask him to change it, it is embarrassing,
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Good grief, you yourself can’t maintain a single gender with consistency and you’re worried about the bunny of peace.