Winning arguments to loose atl life

shawns · February 20, 2014, 5:03am

Re: Winning arguments to loose atl life

[quote=“redvelvet, post:10, topic:307312”]

Okay, you have at least confirmed your gender and identity. You had earlier written as a female and now you’re writing as a male. It’s very commendable that love your wife very dearly. May Allah give other husbands the taufeeq to be as dedicated to their wives as you are.

When you say that her puke is more precious to you than all of us, it’s like you’re also implying that we are seeking your “love” or that we’re competing with your wife. Nobody here is competing with your wife. Most everyone here can bear the bodily fluids of their loved ones a lot easier than they would fellow members, so is this even a necessary thing to mention?

Is anyone here trying to refute or deny that your wife is not a blessing or that she is less of a blessing than you believe her to be? I don’t think so. We don’t even know her. Similarly, Eliminator, you don’t know the members on here well enough to pass sweeping judgments about their lives. Just because the members disagree with your way of doing things, does that mean that their lives…or especially their married/love /sex lives…are deficient or that they’re very discontent…that they must be suffering from armpit odor, foul breath, a forced cousin-marriage…or that they’re abused, or oppressed etc etc??? You don’t like it when anyone says anything negative about you or your wife or your marriage…but you forget that you can go off and get really vicious too. Why is self-reflection more necessary for others and why are you exempt from it…especially if you’re going to engage in the same behavior that has got you so distraught? You keep saying that your content/satisfied in your married life and life in general. Great. And may it forever remain that way. But, if you’re so at peace with yourself, then why get so angry with opposing views?