Will you refuse a girl if...............

[Theorist]

Re: Will you refuse a girl if…

@09

I don’t disagree much on the work related topic, however my definition of ‘compromising’ is different to yours. I don’t consider having lunches (not lunch but lunches) with an attractive person a compromising situation, if I am reading your posts correct you do.** I do consider going out separately outside official hours with non-work related reasons potentially compromising yes. **

As for friendships we have heard of people cheating with brother in laws or sister in laws. What then? Should we restrict their relationships too? And I don’t get your boundaries statement, how do you mean? If you mean not messaging 24/7 or meeting 24/7 or putting such relationships above marriage then me and you are on the same page. If you mean not being emotionally dependent on someone else or going and having a cry on their shoulder when a guy should be doing that with his wife then me and you are on the same page as well. Otherwise I don’t understand what you mean.

That’s the whole point!