I don’t disagree much on the work related topic, however my definition of ‘compromising’ is different to yours. I don’t consider having lunches (not lunch but lunches) with an attractive person a compromising situation, if I am reading your posts correct you do. I do consider going out separately outside official hours with non-work related reasons potentially compromising yes.
As for friendships we have heard of people cheating with brother in laws or sister in laws. What then? Should we restrict their relationships too? And I don’t get your boundaries statement, how do you mean? If you mean not messaging 24/7 or meeting 24/7 or putting such relationships above marriage then me and you are on the same page. If you mean not being emotionally dependent on someone else or going and having a cry on their shoulder when a guy should be doing that with his wife then me and you are on the same page as well. Otherwise I don’t understand what you mean.