Will you refuse a girl if...............

[Shak]

Re: Will you refuse a girl if…

@Ghost14

Said that like 2 pages ago but yes. At the same time, avoiding same opposite sex friendships is within the bounds of Islam. I am not religious at all, and I’m surprised that, since most of you are, I have to be the one advocating for people who want to do so, without being called dinosaurs.

The only issue I take is with the religious insulting people who do have platonic friendships.

I am not religious

I can understand your point, however say you’re married and your co-worker is a bombshellbabe, okay sorry BSB, would you really think about getting it on with her? And do you really think you would ever fall under the temptation to do so?

I don’t agree with that. If a person truly loves their spouse then atleast there should be self-control.

Also as for friendships that need boundaries, if someone hasn’t been steamy with a friend before marriage why would they suddenly break that tradition after marriage?