Will you refuse a girl if...............

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Re: Will you refuse a girl if…

@LucyMay

I think it’s really presumptious for women to assume that men in the workplace are out to lure them via lunches and dinners and whatnot. Guess what, most men (yes, goras too) are decent, shareef people just like you. Things get weird if you make them. There is nothing wrong with having friendly conversations with your colleagues, male or female, or even calling/chatting with friends of the opposite sex. As long as you know your limits and maintain your dignity, things will be fine.** If a colleague or friend starts acting inappropriate,** you do have the option of ending the acquaintance then and there.

Not always!

Ek ho to baat ho! I was a field engineer a little while ago and did not have a single woman at my workplace. I had to be blunt many times to many men at work. They will retaliate if you reject their advances. I had to be mean! I am not normally mean. I am speaking from experience.

Sometimes your only option is to change jobs (which I did) because you can’t escape the prying eyes or being judged. I have come to know that most men (married or not) will take as much advantage of you as they can if they can get away with it. They will not stop until you reach your boiling point.