Koozager- wires crossed time- what arent u understanding??? Of course this is real serious- I disclosed some extremely senstive and personal experience- it wasnt where I found it easy to write all what I did but in my way, it was a way of me relaying this info to help the initial thread starter to appreciate and then empathise with the terrible situation faced by families and people with chronic conditions as Renal failure…and please explain which dilema am I supposed to be facing??? I m really confused…oh and I was referring to another persons contribution on this topic when I said " new guppa joining the thread"…