hain hain hain
tauba tauba
larkooon dekho tumhay lalkar rahi hay
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Originally posted by amy:
Yasin Sahib: ... In my opinion Paki men are insecure, rude, lack manners and very opinionated and I am not the one who will tolerate that.
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who is rude now :)
Well, when I write over here, I dont have intention to pick a fight :) no no dont have time for fight, becuase I still have to start my own mutlinational business. But I do have a question did your started that business your self (if yes - well done), or u inherited that from your parents, or are u financially sercure because u have ur fathers credit cards ;-)
Any ways all the best in your future endeavours.
take care
bye
Cat woman aggravate you??
Now why would i want to do that??
But for your reply:
If you were a person working for a firm, would you choose:
a) A housewife with practical experience nearly 5 years old, with a husband without work.
B)a new MBA or MA student fresh out looking for job experience and most likely stay for a long time.
THE ANSWER IS B.
It is very simple, as you as a working housewife have other commitments than just the work place and job stuff.
You days and schedule revolves around the house and kids.
While the new kid has no family and can work late hours and has and will spend extra time to win a better place at work ie a higher position.
So it is obvious that they will not choose you as their first choice no matter how good you are as you have other commitments.
Naaz what i have said is what i have seen.
Your family may be one of those rare occasions where the pakistani man does run the household.
But this is very rare.
Also what i mean by foriegn wives are those who are western by birth.
So women from the ME or South East Asia are not inculded.
Amy why do you think all pakistani men are insecure?
You run and MNC??
Meaning you are the CEO??
Could you please provide the name of the company.
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CM:
Send me your real ID with a pic and if I find it to be true, I'll certainly provide you with the name. Perhaps you knew that it'll be very foolish of me to put that info here on this bulletin board.
Now Amy there is a huge difference between a pic and a company name.
Also a simple NO could have sufficed.
So to my original question why do you think pakistani men are insecure.
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Aray aray.... aap do no kidhar nikal gaye???
Well, Anchal, to get back to the topic... I was showing your post "typical day" with my wife..and we were sharing a laugh.... when my wife pointed out that Anchal has missed out the "good" parts...
actually I asked my wife to come to gupshup herself, but she is 50/50. ... Magar time nahi hai! LOL .. Anyway, she is presently full time at hom, atleast until our youngest starts school.
So, neway, here are the good points abt married life, by my wife..:
We get a person to love (Gee! thanks) :)
Kids...okay, so they can be a headache at times, but they are soooooooo cute.... (nature plays a trick on us, right? :) )
Kids...Its a wonderful feeling to help develop the personality of a new person.
Wife not working - Husband Working.... Well, it saves us from bak bak jhak jhak of bosses, office politics, insane traffic (Lahore ki traffic, tauba tauba...), promotion blues, kam tankhwa blues...blah blah...
Wife not working - Husband Working.... Hmm... it also gives them (wives) so much more time for coffee parties, social get-togethers, shopping (wow! wonderful), visiting friends, visiting exhibiitions...blah blah...
Ofcourse, it helps if the husband is as nice as moi! LOL
Anyway...take care....
Don't Blame me...
C'est La Vie :)
Pristine you are married??
Damn how old are you??
I pegged you at 24 or 25.
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enlighten me
why is it that a 24 23 25 and the list goes on cant be married?
or is it that you only believe in stereotyping people into certain categories
So if a person is shadi shuda then he gotta be over the big 30?
Anchal is very confused :)
Pristine that was good
so when is bhabhi coming over?
I usually think 24 is around the age when a guy or gal is finishing off with an MA or something.
It is traditional for men to get married after an MA and getting a job.
And i also thought Pristine was young say doing his BA, or starting his MA.
Now with his kids and wifey, i guess wrong and he must be around 28.
As for stereotyping, yes i do, do that.
But it is totally subconcious.
As for a person to get married no he doesn't have to be over 30.
But on average a pakistan guy and gal get married around 24 to 26.
That is the age i pegged Pristine at.
As for being confused, read a couple of my posts down in the politics sections, you will be pulling your hair out - no need for naix - trying to understand what i type.
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Aray kiya persoal personal zati zati cheezain pooch rahay ho CM bhaiya, woh bhi khulay aam… (meaning ‘openly’, not ‘mangoes’)… 
Ofcourse I am married…got kids…2 of them school-going, well not really for the 2nd one, cz he is just 2 yrs 6 mos and is going to ‘Toddlers’, which is more like playtime… And then there is the youngest, our ankoon ka taara.
I crossed the 24 yr mark a few yrs back, but am not THAT old…still in 20s. & yes, I got married vereeeeeeee early, like in early 20s. & I love every minute of it…
http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif
BA, MA… aray kiya bulkul nalaikh samajh rekha hai…you think, I can’t spell…Ofcourse A comes before B, you wrote ‘BA’… Uff… kuch log kitnay na-khwanda hotay hain… smiles. BA, MA is not my cup of tea, more like CA 
Got it? …
Now i know how you can write such long posts and keep it logical.
You have the personality of a CA as well.
You got married early huh??
Did not guess, well congrats i think.
So when is the MRS planning on joining.
Mailik of course has chickened out and won't let his wifey on.
What an coward.
Doesn't want his wife to see what he is up to on this forum.
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Hahahaha… excuse me … what sort of a personality is that…? LOL
Re: Mrs… well, I have tried, am trying… Even gave her another Windows pswd, got her own email addy (she uses email a lot)…but for GupShup..she says “No Time”. She thinks only one of us can spend sooooo much time on this…warna bachoon ko kaun daikhay ga, ghar ki safai kaun karwaaye ga…blah blah. May be if you folks can convince her, she may think differently…
http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif
Laterz…
Don’t Blame me…
C’est La Vie
Well you can clean the house when she is online and she takes care of stuff when you are online.
But yes we regulars spend way to much time here.
As for the breakfastm it takes me 2 hours to cook something that is edible!!!
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2 hours to cook something edible !!! Hmmm... I bet you cook many inedible things on the way to the "something edible" if it takes you 2 hours :)
Anyway.... Just for the sake of completeness, here is the
Typical Day in the Life of a Pakistani Housewife....
Compare and enjoy:
Gets up at six o clock.
Rings the bell to amma/maid/khansama to come in and start preparing the breakfast.
Wakes up the kids.
Gets them ready for the school
Takes them down to the dining room.
The nashta is ready. Feeds them.
By this time, the driver is here.
Bye bye to kids, as off they go with the driver...
Gets back to the bedroom and goes back to sleep. :)
8 o clock - Husband wakes up through alarm, and gets ready for office.
Once he is ready, both of them go to dining room.
By this time the nashta is ready.
Husband seen off...
Now wife gets ready for her day.
Jamaidarni comes in.
Jamaidarni ko danta kay dair say kyon ayee...woh naya bahana banati hai...blah blah
ghar ki safai karwai
khansama ko khanay ka bataya.
Driver sauda salf lay karr aya
Jamaidarni say kapray dhulwayay
Iss dauran do char telephone kiyay.
Amma ko Karachi phone kiya (kyon kay kall say baat nahi hui thee)
Tayar ho karr, bazar niklay..
Departmental store say kapray waghera khariday
Kuch bachon ki shopping kee...
Dost waghera kay ghar gayay...gup shup lagayee
Ghar wapis aakar, driver ko bachoon ko lenay bhaij diya
Khana nikalwaya...
Bachay school say wapis ayay...
Unke kapray change karwaye, aur khana khilaya (jo khansama nay tayyar karr rakha tha)
Phir bachoon ko homework karaya...(jo unko nahi ayya, woh khud karr diya!)
Phir bachon ko sulla diya..
Khud bed main lait karr kall raat wali film baqi daikhee...
phir qailula / nap time ...
5 o clock, uth karr tayar hoyay...
bachon ko uthaya aur tayyar kiya...
Bachay bahar khailnay chalay gayay..
Mian saheb office say wapis agayay.
Waqai thakay huay hain, kyon kay sara din aik bore meeting main baithna parr gaya. :)
Mian ko kaha, "jayeen uppar ja kar change karr lein, mein chai banwati hoon"...
Khansama ko chai ka kaha...aur khud akhbar waghera parha.
Maid say kapray istree karwayay.
Mian wapis aye, to chai pee aur saray dinn ki report dee...
Maghrib kay time, bachon ko wapis bulwa karr cartoon laga karr diyay...
Aur khud sham ka program set karna shuru karr diya...
Chinese khaya jayee ya Bundu Khan ya Steak ya Burger .....blah blah...
Mian ko kaha "Chalain drive parr chaltain hain, bachay subah say bahar nahin niklay" :)
Drive kay dauran, iteffaq say McDonald aa gaya, tu ruk kar burger kha liya... ab kaun ghar ja karr khana nikalwayay. Khansaman bhi thak gaya ho ga.
Wapsi parr kall wali movie wapas karr dee aur nayee movie rent ki
Back to home..
Bachon ko change karwaya, aur teeth brush.
Bachay sonay chalay gayay..
Khud change karr kay, movie lagayee.
Mian daftar ka kaam bhi karta reha aur jhank jhank kar Aishwariya Rai kay dance bhi dekhta reha...
Jabb movie bulkul bore ho gayee to band karr dee...
and its sleep time...
Next morning, back to "the grind" :)
Don't Blame me...
C'est La Vie :)
[This message has been edited by Pristine (edited November 06, 2000).]
CM: I said pic ID. You know that people here including you, might be roaming around with multiple handles and fake ID's. Paki men have great difficulty dealing with educated women and that creates insecurity.
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Originally posted by amy:
CM: I said pic ID. You know that people here including you, might be roaming around with multiple handles and fake ID's. Paki men have great difficulty dealing with educated women and that creates insecurity.
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Amy u never answered my question that I asked u couple of posts back.
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Originally posted by amy:
Paki men have great difficulty dealing with educated women and that creates insecurity.
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And of course its out national habit....stereotyping....even if we become educated, can't get rid of it...lets try to be more rational in our statements...