that was my reason why i made my earlier comment. If people outside of their circle say that the girl is nice then i don’t think there should be any objection on her. The only thing guy should be worried about that how can he keep her family away from the girl in future. Perhaps, the girl wants the same but because she is a girl, she couldn’t do it by herself. So a strong person who can stand next to her might be something she is looking for to tell her family that I don’t belong to you guys and let me live my life happily.