or would u let ur teenage child/young adult child date?..if yes..under what circumstances exactly?..if u say flatout no..then why not?
or would u let ur teenage child/young adult child date?...if yes..under what circumstances exactly?..if u say flatout no..then why not?
What is date or dating?
^ going out with opposite sex..speaking to them on the phone regularly..seeing htem regularly..
I will get severe women's wrath that I am already used to but I have to speak the truth, I will allow my son to date but daughter is a no no. Thanks.
:baghoo yehaa see:
^ going out with opposite sex
no. my religion doesn't allow that.
..speaking to them on the phone regularly..seeing htem regularly..
yeah my son can talk to the girl and even he can see her if he intends to marry her.
^ but how can he know if he intends to marry her if he doesnt get to fully know her?..hmmmmm…?..bataeiye naaa…
Why would he wanna know a girl without the intention of getting married to her? If he has seen her and talked to her then he can decide if he wants to marry her or not.
Isn’t seeing the girl and talking to her enough?
Why would he wanna know a girl without the intention of getting married to her? If he has seen her and talked to her then he can decide if he wants to marry her or not. Isn't seeing the girl and talking to her enough?
no its not, can a guy tell if he wants to spend the rest of his with a receptionist he just met and spoke to for example? u need more interaction in various circumstances to truly get to know some1 before making such a big decision. dunno how religon can be compatible with something like this
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Nope! of course not. If you allow them to you are just opening up the doors to other things as well. In essence, you are giving them approval for all the things to follow.
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Teen ager no , adult kids who are on their own can make their own decisions. I am trying to teach them the right Islamic values and pray to Allah that he keeps them on the right path. Ameen.
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^^y nt?
^^y nt?
bas i ve decided i think ill do a bad job
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os ko ghar say bahir na nikal doon:emmy:
no i wudnt let him
no its not, can a guy tell if he wants to spend the rest of his with a receptionist he just met and spoke to for example? u need more interaction in various circumstances to truly get to know some1 before making such a big decision. dunno how religon can be compatible with something like this
if a guy is clever enough then he can but if a guy is khota dimagh then he cannot decide if he shouid get marry to that receptionist or not, not even after spending 6 months with her in a house.
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^ lol ... you have a lot to learn in life my friend.
These are matters of the heart, logic and cleverness don't play much role here (or not supposed to anyway)
Teen ager no , adult kids who are on their own can make their own decisions. I am trying to teach them the right Islamic values and pray to Allah that he keeps them on the right path. Ameen.
One doesnt have to date to make their own decision.
^ lol ... you have a lot to learn in life my friend.
These are matters of the heart, logic and cleverness don't play much role here (or not supposed to anyway)
i agree these are the matters of heart. How long should it take the heart to decide to marry?
^two secs if a man is not sure of you he ll never ever be sure