I get so frustrated sometimes cos it seems like they’re always fighting. They do sometimes sit and play together but not very often. If I ask one to do something she asks why cant the other one do it. They fight over anything and everything. As soon as I leave the room I hear shouting.
I try to treat them both equally but they have such different personalities.
In fact I think I see a little bit of myself in one of them when I was little. Shes very stubborn, and tries to get her own way all the time. She also bullies her sister. The other one is pretty easygoing.
I am not close to my siblings so I really want them to be close.
Do you think they will grow out of it as they get older and more mature.
What are your experiences of growing up with your siblings. Please share.
yes having one year difference means that in a few years time it will not matter and they will eventually (hopefully) become goodfriends, they will know whta eachother gets up to and be able to go out and do things together without thinking...shes younger and more childish than me.
they will grow out of it. definitely. me n my sister were the same exact way. well even now...most of the times we argue n when asked to do something...we ask..'y cant she do it?'. she's a year younger than me. n when we were younger..we fought most the time. the only times we actually played was when our friends were over. warna har baat pe jhagra hota tha.
its a lot better now. we've grown out of it for the most part ;) n they will too. so dont worry
Just like others have said, your daughters will grow out of it, insha'Allah.
My sister and I are three years apart and we get along very well, alhamdulillah. However, as kids, we used to fight a lot and hardly ever got along. I've seen other such sisters as well. Most of us usually grow out of it when we're around 16-17+.
I don't have a younger sister, but my younger brother and I used to constantly fight. We did grow out of it eventually but sometimes we still fight when we get on each other's nerves.
At least you have two girls. If it was a boy and a girl, your daughter might have gotten a few black eyes and bruised knees while growing up :D
oh only 2 grls.. think about my parents.. we are SIX grls at home... we used to fight like crazy and had teams .. but now we all grown up and are like best friends
Oh boy, my brothers and I are adults ( well, according to our age we should be anyway, wether or not our minds really have become adult is a different question, heehee ). We still regularly argue. As children we were worse, especially my older brother!
Usually children grow out of it. I guess it's the siblings thing, if there are siblings who never argue, then there is something wrong with them!
My children are younger then yours, they have two years between them and they argue a lot too. But when they are apart, they miss each other so much. It's unbelievable.
