When my cousin was getting married to an amazing man, her ultra-modern dad said a few surprising yet powerful words to her - they were along the lines that her getting married is beyond just getting dressed up and having a husband. She must understand what 'marriage' meant. He told her straight up that he never wants to hear her come to him to bad-mouth her husband or expect his involvement in her personal life. This marriage basically meant she burn her bridges - she has to put everything in this marriage, through the good and the bad. There is no turning back.
Alhamdullillah, she went in this marriage thinking this is it and that's the mentality you should have: I will make this work with all I have.
That actually upsets me quite a bit. It's the same as a parent telling you that they're disowning you.
Equally horrendous when we're expected to marry.