Will i be doing the right thing by breaking up with him?

[Sehrysh]

Re: Will i be doing the right thing by breaking up with him?

@annie_bibi

Sehrysh: Because i’ve invested too much time,energy with him in hope that he’ll be doing what we planned on doing in the first place.Gave him too much space i guess.He is going through a tough phase i understand,but I realize now that he’ll do what he wants to do.Meaning more compromise from my end.

Yes,i’m ready to get married,since quiet a long time now.My family wants a settled guy,he won’t be earning much till 2 years atleast.

This isn’t really complicated,But i think i’m just so drained out now.With working my *** off too,not easy being a doctor.
Maybe i was too dumb initially to not realize it won’t work out.He pushed me onto taking the path i am on now.And said..“hey you go,ill be joining you soon”!And i went on.Look back,him still waving back happily,but from a road that goes somewhere else.

I’m ok with adapting to his family’s lifestyle,that isn’t a major issue really.I’m a flexible person.

So I guess,i want to backout now.

Then back out. You have the right to change your mind (just as he could do the same with you). If you expect your life to go in a particular direction and he’s not willing to share that path with you and you don’t want to compromise (and you shouldn’t be the only one making compromises in a relationship) - then end things. There is no point in dragging out a relationship that’s making you unhappy.

The truth is each of us knows what is in our own hearts and what compromises and for whom we’re willing to make them - know your heart and move on without any regrets.