Re: Wife's Earnings
PCG, i totally understand the ruling and how it is there to protect us women and wives. Lekin, the point u make that we are fully allowed to go buy whatver we want from our money... i get that too some extent. But not fully. If we start going around buying watever that pelases us JUST to say that ISLAM says we can do it.. we're allowed to, I dont agree.
U work together as a team to get finances on track.. you work together to build trust and good communication. If I wanted to buy a dress or something for myself, I would.. id most liekly spend "HIS" money to do so... but if I were gonna go buy something big with "MY" money.. id definately talk to him about it.... it just depends on the situation. There are times, when economically things are going great.. ur both buying things here and there... at other times, liek the times we've just been through in the past year.... u've really gotta put "MY" money aside and make it "OURS".
neways, my whole point is quite fazool cus im pretty sure u get what im saying and its prob not what u meant neways...
point was, sometimes time and circumstances dictate how things should be done